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My title is certainly not my own created saying, but it speakes volumes of how you should be living your life. It is perfect for the men here that struggle with women and relationships. When I became a member here in 2006, I was going through so many changes. Just got my divorce and my...

Sorry to put you out there Des, but I read some of your recovery journal...not all but some. You have always been solid on here and I have a sense you are really struggling with being dumped. Just goes to show many things: 1) You are human 2) You experience normal emotions 3) you have the...

I am really starting to ask myself this question as of late. Last year or so I have had my share of dates and different sexual partners. I tend to really attract drunks... this is something I still cannot shake. But what makes any different from a woman who is out there dating and doing...

It has been quite awhile since I have been on here. Been dating and career things. Which leads to this: I had been dating this women whom has some financial troubles. She asked for me to remain loyal to her and refrain from sexual encounters with other women, which I agreed, no problem. She also...

Spinning plates is commonly taught on here and I try it from time to time. For me it just gets way too complicated. For example: Lately, I have been forgetting what I have been told by them and remembering names..not that I actual forget, but processing in my head which one I am with. So afraid...

I had been seeing a women who appeared to be a very good match. First week was absolutely wonderful. We had a great time together and had a lot in common. Then last weekend she invited me to go the river with some of her friends on a pontoon boat. There is where it went downhill. This 5ft2...

I have seen this more times that I wish to speak about!! Woman so have most of us figured out way before we even get a small hint of trying to figure them out. Which brings me to the first date. I just returned from a first date and WOW!!!! She made it very hard to focus, did a decent job, but...

I was thinking about the types that I have had in my past and just curious to what you players prefer. WILL MAKE THIS A DUAL POLL of sorts, so please answer twice if you don't mind. Personally I have always liked the thicker, NOT fat, over the skinnier type and I like feminine compared to...

I am going to share something the pros know and I have always had a fairly decent grasp of until yesterday. This has been discussed every since this forum has been in place. NOW I totally get it. May I present the facts: Her-27 & me-40 Her-2 small kids& me-0 Her- a 6.5 and she gets this because...

Where I work there is the dude who I guess is about 29 years old. From the talks he and I share, it appears he lacks experience w/ women. Anyways, he has been telling me about a woman he is EXTREMELY interested in and been hanging around for a few months. He goes on to say they have ONLY kissed...

I have been slumping last several weeks, but truth be told, I am nursing a break up. Like an idiot, I jumped right back into a relationship before I was ready. Around the first of the year I was doing pretty well.. I had three plates spinning. I was NOT ready for any relationship or plates for...

There have been a multitude of threads of us fellows dogging women who suffer w/ Bipolar disorder...But what happens when you suffer? My question: Who has ever been diagnosed with this; how did it affect your life before and after treatment; what were the things you did that made you recognize...

Well after being away for almost a year and half I have had a lot going on and now I am back to square one, which starts here! I will not be going to the intricate details. Found a women with small kids in the house and like an idiot, moved in. Right from the start I did not like how the kids...

WOW!!!! It is has been stated how emotionally charged women are in their behavior and thought process. The undeniable truth is MEN think based on logic and women on emotion. This has been discussed before on here, like what hasn't? But I am finding it entertaining how it works. A women can...

Today is my day and I am on roll!!! This is NOT, I repeat NOT a disparaging post against women, but a reality check for everyone. First, a quick story: I have a buddy of mine who lives 80 miles North of Atlanta, in a small country county known only for its outlet mall and a drag strip (NHRA)...

This is starting to be my new take on things even as selfish as it sounds! I have had many set backs the last 4 years and dealt with enough garbage to fill your local landfill. Chapter 7 with house included, injury requiring neck surgery and lost job from that and another accident, failed...

This is a question I think about from time to time since I have been coming here for over 5 years. I lurked for a year I guess before joining. I am starting to grasp why I used to be more successful than now. MY ATTITUDE!!! For me, even though I enjoy participating, I certainly feel it has hurt...

In the past I was the typical one girl at a time guy. After all the garbage of dealing with just one and getting oneitis in the past, I am trying to spin plates. Here is my problem: I have several women I am talking to and It is starting to confuse the hell out of me. I am leaving my home...

There are those silly books out there like "The Rules and Why Men Love *****es" that teach the fairer sex to play games and manipulate men. For the male that has enough self esteem in him will not appreciate these tactics being deployed. I have been talking to a women that is trying this $hit...

I was having lunch the other day with a good friend and what he told me made me want to puke!!! This poor bastard works his butt off all the time and has two jobs. He used to live with a room mate and was able to save his money. Like a fool, he moved in with his girlfriend. He said this to me,"...