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Good cautionary tale, Pen... ...too bad, it's for REAL, though. I think ONE of the lessons that we need to learn from this is the danger that awaits us when we emotionally invest in someone who has a volatile personality. The nature of all emotional connections is that they are by...

Hmmm...I was just wondering: Is hers a "special" vagina?

One thing that I regret is HOW LONG it has taken me to learn that many of the most fulfilling moments of my life occur when I have successfully balanced THE PRACTICE of caring about the feeling of others, while at the same time, managing to hold MY OWN best interest in equally as high a regard.

Yo Sargeant Squirrels, GREAT POST! Sometimes a successful approach really does UP the ante to a man with either limited skill, or limited long term interest. For those men, anything other than the "briefest" of relationship scenarios can cause them to experience a tidal wave of...

Yo POTBELLY, Great Post, young soldier! And at 19 years old, no less. Impressive. I commend you AND I envy you a little as well. MANY of us here have only learned of the truths that you just shared by fighting YEARS of hard won battles. But thanks to places like THIS, and the few men we...

Yo Troops. This is something I posted in another thread once before, but I think it applies here as well. As a former nice guy, as a former recovering man once blinded by the matrix, and NOW a determined "soldier", I'll share this with you guys: In my life, I can honestly say that I feel...

Well said, Interceptor. And the primary reason WHY many "pretend" that life is ONLY comprised of gray areas is so that they can justify mindsets and behaviors that they themselves indulge in that AGGRESSIVELY infringe upon the well-being of others------with absolutely not one twinge of guilt...

Yes. :yes: This is ONE of the messages that I have been constantly driving home in the majority of my threads over the past year. Biologically, it would seem that the greatest power a female has over a male is her ability to manipulate him through his more aggressively urgent sex drive...

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Great post, JONWON.:up: Self Respect along with the willingness and ability to go against the grain and STAND UP for yourself IS major. The opposite of COURAGE is not cowardice, but rather "CONFORMITY". March on.

Wow... No you DIDN'T use words like morality and/or personal integrity on the Sosuave MATURE MAN forum, did you???? :nono: Soldier, don't you KNOW those are fighting words around here? Prepare yourself to be FLAMED. But don't worry, I'll issue you some of those Asbestos Fatigues like I...

Yo Vorbis, Well, my method of operation is usually to only enter into an exclusive relationship with a woman when I'm "into her" on more levels than just sexually-----because a holistic attraction is always stronger than just a compartmentalized one. This usually goes a long way to nullify or...

Yo JOE45, There is a difference between the "traditions of men" that led to the formation of worldwide RELIGIONS and what is "true" Spirituality. Many would be surprised at how DIFFERENTLY the bible itself teaches what true SPIRITUALITY really IS, as opposed to what is usually...

Well, to each his own, of course. But as a confirmed BREAST MAN (But I like it ALL, mind you...), I find that the bigger the boobs, the more creative I tend to get. And if I was a Porn Star or something, I'd definitely demonstrate for all the unlearned just HOW MANY WAYS you can enjoy a woman...

Yo JOE, True. The women who act LESS, but openly and truthfully communicate more are the ones that demonstrate that they MAY be worth the time it takes to investigate the contents of their character in their ENTIRETY. And YES, they ARE out there...I've seen them, met them, and even been...

Yo Ketostix, And I agree with the statement that you just made-----especially what I have highlighted in BOLD. But I would respectfully suggest that you expand your statement BEYOND just women...because I am of the belief that most PEOPLE in general have no integrity. Which is why...

No. I'm actually saying the OPPOSITE. What I'm saying is that initially, many women ACT like they're more interested in you than they really are. THEN when they DO finally buy into you, they drop their act and really DO begin to like you as much as they acted like they did initially. In...

Yo Str8up, I would point out that along with INTEGRITY, another characteristic that differentiates a woman qualified to be included in your life is her ability and willingness to make a SIGNIFICANT emotional investment in YOU. I wrote the following message for another reason, but I think...

Yes. I agree with THIS observation too. And here's the prescription for getting depression from THAT scenario: Apply massive action to either an unrealistic goal, OR a realistic goal with an unrealistic time line and it equals FRUSTRATION. And when we are either unable or UNWILLING to modify...

I have found that Depression is often the result of TOO MUCH thinking and NOT ENOUGH action!