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The problem with internalizing and acknowledging your 'potential' options is that they have to be the result of having generated 'real' options in the past. You can give yourself pep talks all day long and say "I can hook up with anyone I want, any time", but your subconscious knows that's...

POWERLIFTER, go read Plate Theory. Spin more plates. You're fixated on this one married woman – one you can't have, and thus NOT a plate you're presently spinning unless you're engaged in an illicit affair with her. To move past this one you need to first ask yourself what do you think would...

Not that this is any real news to anyone on this board: http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/worklife/03/15/48.laws.of.power/index.html?hpt=C1 However, I did thoroughly enjoy reading the (predictable) comments from the general populace. 90% of which are shining examples of the 49th Law - Always...

Polygamy is already legal and widely practiced in the west; it's called no-fault divorce. Americans are perhaps the foremost practitioners of polygamy, we just don't do it concurrently. I know a guy right now who has 4 wives and 5 children. He's currently only sleeping with number 4, but he is...

Read the Mature forum rules: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=127221

http://www.youtube.com/watch#!v=kEjVnkk9ezM You'll laugh your ass off, but pay attention at about 1:05.

A very wise and enigmatic sage by the name of Sigmund Freud once said that no mortal is ever able to keep a secret. If their lips are silent, they’ll chatter with fingertips; betrayal oozes out at every pore. What you're dealing with is suspicion. Guy’s spy because it’s an inborn biological...

Law 38: Think as You Like but Behave Like Others If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel...

OK, time for some DJ Math. You're 27 and you've been in an LTR with the same dead fish for 5 years, meaning you were 22 when you entered into your LTR. Essentially what your having proposed to this girl has done is shocked you into the awareness that you've wasted 5 of the most pivotal years in...

I eat alone for lunch at least 3 days a week depending on what projects I'm working on. I do have to have a distraction while I eat though, so I bring along my laptop or a magazine. The Panera bread by the Florida mall here is usually packed with beautiful women and I see most eating alone. I...

POKECHOP, put an age on your profile

POWERLIFTER, I apologize for the threadjacking. I had thought this was JAFYK's OP when he PM'ed me about it. Let me begin by saying we're really pushing into some SoSuave no-no's here by taking this thread in a religious direction. Personally I think that issues like this, when cast in an...

Ooooh, a 'manager'? Hot damn, she IS tough and independent! :crackup:

JAFYK, you've been dealing with this for almost 2 years by my count: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153158 The time to fish or cut bait has long since past, and you decided to cut bait. That said, I'll repost you what I did then and we'll see how well you've learned or...

Remember back in high school when you took drivers ed? One of the skills that you have to learn is that when you're in a skid you must turn the wheel into the skid. We can be told to do this and answer this question on a drivers test, but when you're actually in the situation of skidding every...

The art of C&F is to not make it seem like C&F. Most guys lack the wittiness needed pull it off without tipping their hand and coming off as a chode. So when their scripted C&F blows up in their face they blame the tool instead of their inability to use it. Also, C&F and Negs are just two of...

Don't be a Mike.

Therein lies the rub. There will always exist an element of bias (revenge) whenever one enacts what they perceive as justice. Women are almost universally absolved of this. Carrie Underwood can write a chart topping song about vandalizing the truck of a cheating lover that women (and men) will...

I'm not so sure about that. I'll be the first to advocate against revenge, and I've done so in many different threads, but for pragmatic reasons (wasted effort), not so guys can cling to some self-righteous high ground. If the guy is resolved to break it off with her, and he has the opportunity...

I must admit, I got an adrenaline rush out of that. Kind of like watching a car wreck in slow motion. However, I find that kind of ironic since any number of daytime shows (i.e. Tyra Banks, et. al.) have been basically doing the same sh!t for decades now. A lot of guys acknowledge the power of...