I cant get this event out of my head. It happened a couple of weeks ago.
My LTR and myself took her friend (Lisa 38, very attractive) out to explore some night life a couple of weekends ago. The plans were to visit clubs, bars, ect on Friday and Saturday nights. A couple of party nights for a change of pace. And a way for Lisa to meet some new people.
The very first place we entered on Friday night was the start of an awful weekend.
No sooner than we grabbed a table we were approached by a guy I met in the past but knew little about him. He (Jake) was 46 and seemed like a decent person. He helped himself to the open chair next to Lisa and asked me to introduce him to her. Looked like things were going good. Dancing, talking, drinking, ect. He bought 2 rounds of drinks. Could not tell him no. Lisa got to blabbering about plans for the rest of the night and Saturday and everything else in her life. Including me and LTR. Big mistake.
Jake followed us to the next place and seemed to have Lisa's interest. By the end of the night things were getting strange. Jake was getting infactuated with this woman. He pulled me off to the side and told me how great he thought she was. Thanked me for introducing her to him. And actually thanked me for bringing her into his life
. I started to get creeped out. I pulled him off to the side and told him to calm down and get a grip. I told him not to be so aggressive at the moment. You have only known her for a couple of hours. Be patient or you will scare her off. Of course he did not listen. He was trying to impress her and for some reason I think he had this thought in his head that she was going to geet away.
The end of the evening came and we pryed Jake away from Lisa to take her to her home. Before we arrived at her home Jake already was calling her. He also was calling her by 10:00 am Saturday morning. He was trying to talk her into going out for dinner with him. She declined. My phone rings Saturday afternoon and it is Jake. Wanting to know everything about this woman. Wanting me to set up a date with her for him. I finally convince him to wait a week and call her. Jeezus this is a creep in a costume. I told LTR to tell Lisa to be careful.
Saturday night comes and off we go. Guess who is at the first place we stop...Jake. What an uncomfortable night. Lisa must have told him everything on Friday. Hence how he knew where we would be.
Weekend ended, thankfully. But this guy is still calling me to plan something and sending flowers to Lisa and calling 24/7.
Seeing a desperate man up close is eye opening. Wish I could get him to read this site. But his mind is in the clouds.
I think to my past and hope I was not that bad.
Dont be a Jake..... men.
My LTR and myself took her friend (Lisa 38, very attractive) out to explore some night life a couple of weekends ago. The plans were to visit clubs, bars, ect on Friday and Saturday nights. A couple of party nights for a change of pace. And a way for Lisa to meet some new people.
The very first place we entered on Friday night was the start of an awful weekend.
No sooner than we grabbed a table we were approached by a guy I met in the past but knew little about him. He (Jake) was 46 and seemed like a decent person. He helped himself to the open chair next to Lisa and asked me to introduce him to her. Looked like things were going good. Dancing, talking, drinking, ect. He bought 2 rounds of drinks. Could not tell him no. Lisa got to blabbering about plans for the rest of the night and Saturday and everything else in her life. Including me and LTR. Big mistake.
Jake followed us to the next place and seemed to have Lisa's interest. By the end of the night things were getting strange. Jake was getting infactuated with this woman. He pulled me off to the side and told me how great he thought she was. Thanked me for introducing her to him. And actually thanked me for bringing her into his life
. I started to get creeped out. I pulled him off to the side and told him to calm down and get a grip. I told him not to be so aggressive at the moment. You have only known her for a couple of hours. Be patient or you will scare her off. Of course he did not listen. He was trying to impress her and for some reason I think he had this thought in his head that she was going to geet away.The end of the evening came and we pryed Jake away from Lisa to take her to her home. Before we arrived at her home Jake already was calling her. He also was calling her by 10:00 am Saturday morning. He was trying to talk her into going out for dinner with him. She declined. My phone rings Saturday afternoon and it is Jake. Wanting to know everything about this woman. Wanting me to set up a date with her for him. I finally convince him to wait a week and call her. Jeezus this is a creep in a costume. I told LTR to tell Lisa to be careful.
Saturday night comes and off we go. Guess who is at the first place we stop...Jake. What an uncomfortable night. Lisa must have told him everything on Friday. Hence how he knew where we would be.
Weekend ended, thankfully. But this guy is still calling me to plan something and sending flowers to Lisa and calling 24/7.
Seeing a desperate man up close is eye opening. Wish I could get him to read this site. But his mind is in the clouds.
I think to my past and hope I was not that bad.
Dont be a Jake..... men.
