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Time for some DJ Math: You're 41. You've been married for 21 years, thus you got married at 20. I'm just going to average that you hooked up with your wife around 18 and got married at 20 after an 'unplanned' pregnancy? In the 21 years of your marriage, when did you establish the understanding...

Don't think of plate theory as a filter so much as it is a means to reinforce confidence. If you were to step into the ring with a professional UFC fighter right now it'd probably be suicide for you. But train for a few years, spar with other fighters and win a few bouts and you'll probably be...

As far as risk is concerned, it's not risk when you have legitimate options. Real options are the cornerstone of confidence, so try not to think of it in terms of risk. Most guys (particularly rAFCs seeking advice on SS) get to a point where Game and plate spinning give them their first taste of...

Put an age on your profile RUMBLE

One of the reasons I advocate getting in shape as a primary element of improving a Man's confidence as well as a prime attractor is because it's really the one area of our lives where we have the most direct control. Honestly, it's easier to work out, gain muscle mass and/or lose fat than it is...

My guess is that you'd get answers biased by how relatively attractive each woman was. This is similar to how most very attractive women aren't as bothered by sexualization in varying degrees as they become less and less so. In other words the HB5 will rail against sexism of skimpy bikinis and...

From our side (DJs) of the equation we can certainly see the logic of this, but for men, to be single, childless and never married after 30 carries a social stigma. Of course they're presumptions, but how many times have your married friends attempted to set you up with a girl who they think has...

If I'm tall it's only because I stood on the shoulders of great Men. :rolleyes:

Agreed on your points. But the idea is that a chronic singleness status indicates some kind of mental imbalance. Whether that's attention whøring or BPD isn't the point. Neither is a PUA intent. The idea is in the same vein as a guy who's chronically single; we assume he's gay or a social...

NEO: "There's no going back now is there? MORPHEUS: "No. But if you could, would you really want to?" Was ignorance bliss SCION? No person both frightens and disgusts me more than one who understands truth, but willfully opts for denial. It's not the desire to do so that disgusts me, I...

I heard this theory come up on a local radio talk show this morning. The idea is basically for men to be wary of exceptionally hot women who are chronically single. The point being that a hot woman ought to be more likely to be monogamous by virtue of her easy ability to attract guys, but if she...

Foolish mortals, POOK ascended into heaven 6 years ago. He came to deliver his message, to expose the Matrix and to tell us how we could escape it, reshape it and bend it to our will. His message delivered, he left us to ponder his wisdom. Some will accept it and be transformed, others will not,...

I will never understand this logic. I've been sexually active since age 17. I've nailed over forty women in my time, and of those I've had 5 LTRs (including my wife of 14 years). With the exception of my wife, I've never had any woman cook ANYTHING for me beyond making cookies or maybe a...

DUKE, your brief assessment here is not nearly enough to go on. I know fat girls who would wait in line for a guy to dote on them like this - doesn't mean you'd want to ƒuck them. You also mention that "she's thinking about giving him a chance", this implies she has frame control from the...

While it is disgusting, I've got to admit there's really not a lot to go on from this brief report. For instance, "I would never ask my princess to do anything", could've been discreet sarcasm depending on the tone of it. That's not to give her the benefit of the doubt. However, that said, I...

JOPHIL beat me to it, you cannot negotiate desire. Any natural, organic flow you might've had is gone with girl B now. It's been replaced with your negotiating her sexual desire from her position of control, so any sex you have will be conditional and obligatory, not inspired by passion or...

I'll have been married for 14 years come July, trust me, Game extends well into marriage. I owe a good portion of my relationship success to having applied, both deliberately and unconsciously, elements of Game to my marriage over the years. In fact I think in regards of an LTR the concept...

Fail. Double Fail. You're far too OVERT in your response. You commit two sins here; first you come off as plaintive and whiney ("but whhyyyyy wont you spend the night?"), as well as accusatory ("Is this a sh!t test?"), and second you passed up a golden opportunity to demonstrate higher...

Women's natural preference is for Hypergamy not monogamy. The overarching imperative is to pair with the best mate their personal conditions (primarily physical attractiveness and sexual availability) will afford them in return for long term parental investment and provisioning. They want the...

I think the biggest problem isn't whether or not they're as sexual as any other girl, but rather the convenient OUT they get when they're not interested in a guy. When the girl isn't attracted to a guy she simply falls back on her professed convictions and the LJBF is ironclad. Who's going to...