All of my friends who have gfs, you can clearly tell that the girl is in control, and owns the frame, since I hang around them a lot.
I've seen signs of disrespect from the gf to the guy, such as dismissive looks, interrupting him, and being very stern with him in front of everyone.
What's funny is that I usually have to be the one that sternly puts the girl in her place: i.e. 'Let him talk, it's not your turn.' 'Give him credit, don't blame him for everything.' That shuts her up for awhile.
Do you guys see the same thing around you?
Seems very few relationships exist where the guy is leading. Do you attribute that more to failure on the guy's part to lead, or the girl simply being failing at being submissive.
I've seen signs of disrespect from the gf to the guy, such as dismissive looks, interrupting him, and being very stern with him in front of everyone.
What's funny is that I usually have to be the one that sternly puts the girl in her place: i.e. 'Let him talk, it's not your turn.' 'Give him credit, don't blame him for everything.' That shuts her up for awhile.
Do you guys see the same thing around you?
Seems very few relationships exist where the guy is leading. Do you attribute that more to failure on the guy's part to lead, or the girl simply being failing at being submissive.