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    Stage Fright

    Alright I'm hitting my stride right now with my ability to meet girls and attract them. It's something that is actually a lot easier than I ever thought it would be once it clicked. I'm not playing the numbers game or running lines etc... I just go out and have fun (with or without meeting...
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    1/1/12 Failed miserably on first day of year.. Need Advice from Grown Ass Men

    I need mature advice from some grown men who have some experience. I am 29 years old turning 30 this year. Raised in an ultra conservative family, hence I had limited experience with women early on. Didn't lose my virginity till I was 20 then after I broke up with my GF I went on a heinous dry...
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    Seeing Multiple Girls

    I understand now why it is important to always have more than one girl your working on. Right now I have about 3...and that is all I can handle. After this point it gets to hard for scheduling purposes. Thoughts? I think that it's kind of important to see a girl your working on about once a...
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    Why does she randomly txt what are you doing?

    Been seeing girl for 3 months. Had a discussion about a relationship she freaked. Started flaking for about two weeks. Finally got fed up told her that if she didn't want to see me just say no..and told her it was okay to say no, I would be fine with it. During this whole time she would...
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    WTF-Messed up on many levels, need some advice/explanations

    Why will a girl who has no intentions of having sex with you, get naked with you while you are in her bed? Told me that she wants to be on birth control before having sex with me, but then like 5 minutes later was getting completely naked. This has also happened to me before with another girl...
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    Laying it all out there - Need Help - Grown Ass Men Please Respond

    My Background: Raised in a strict religious home. Never dated in High School, had one girlfriend for 6 months in college. That was my only relationship only girl I have ever f****. I was always to AFC and still am, although I have improved at this. I never thought I was good looking or had...
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    Girl slept over..no sex..need feedback

    Heres the situation. I had a party the other night. Went great everybody got messed up and had a good time. Last week I introduced myself to one of my fine neighbors. She pulled up and her car was smoking so I walked over talked to her about it, gave her some advice and got her number. Told...
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    Going out - Drinking Beforehand

    I'm going out in a bit...I tend to drink heavily before I go out. I say I do it to save money, as it's quite expensive to drink at bars in NYC on a Sat. night. But tonight as I sit here drinking alone, I feel a bit guilty. Like I'm starting to use alcohol as to much of a crutch. I can talk...
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    Think I got burnt - Learned my lesson..

    Went on two great dates with an awesome girl. Got attached way to quickly, I don't think I acted overly needy though. The only negative sign I got from her on the date last Sunday was that she said that she might be to busy to hang out this weekend. At this point I hadn't even asked her to...
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    Lifting less more quickly

    So, I used to try to lift as much as I could and I would rest like 2-3 minutes in between sets. I have not seen very good results doing this, so I decided to try something new. Now I am doing 4 sets of each lift I would normally do, but only waiting like 30 seconds before the next set. I...
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    Want to party, but dont want a party girl..

    So I went out on a date tonight with a fantastic girl...she doesn't like to drink or party. That is fine (actually kind of desirable in my mind), the girl is beautiful and has an awesome personality. Wants to go out again. But I am not sure how to balance out my current life with someone who...
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    Taking out Chinese Woman

    So, I'm taking out a Chinese woman this weekend. She's going to school here. Speaks English very well. I met her at an event I volunteered at. Funny thing is that I asked her out to a Chinese restaurant, lol, but it's a real popular place that shes never been to. Does anyone legitimately...
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    Stuck in friendzone

    Met a girl last week, grad school student with me, were both the same age. Got her number, made plans to hang out with her and her friends. She is really cool and I'm interested...But when we were out she said some things that made me think I'm screwed. "Your my favorite person at school...
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    Is a pat on the back a bad sign?

    Heres the deal: I have this part time job, where I sit at an information table in the middle of a mall and talk to people. I've been working on some of the girls that work in the mall. There is this lady that works nearby and I saw her a couple days in a row and smiled and she smiled back...
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    Balls Dropped Last Night at Bar - Need Feedback

    OK, heres the deal. Last night when I was hammered I decided that I was sick of going to bars with my friends and not talking to any girls except for the ones that are in our group. So, I started approaching girls I didn't know by myself...Yes I know its lame, Ive never done this before in a...
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    Advice on living in NYC? Talking to girls on subway?

    Are there any people on this forum from NYC? I just moved to Brooklyn, and Im living in the Hood. I don't really fit in here to well. I have 3 major problems. Looking for any helpful advice... 1. I don't know anyone. 2. I don't have a job...yet...so I cant spend much money. 3. I...
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    Got No Action!

    Hung out with my buddy and his 2-18 yr old neighbors. We all ended up getting hammered. Got into two seperate bedrooms with the girls. This chick was making out with me and groping me all night long, then we got down to just panties and boxers in her bedroom and she refused to do anything...
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    Dude joining in on what I thought was a 1-1 date.

    Thought I had a date with this girl. Now I find out some other guy (friend of mine) wants to join us. So she told him to ask me if it was ok. So, I tried to turn him away gently. Then they both got upset at me. Basically now I dont even want to do it at all. She said she didnt know it was...
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    Losing 10 Lbs in 2 weeks? For basketball tournament.

    Ive been trying to get big for a while, and Ive slowly been getting stronger and bigger. The thing is Ive also been trying to shred the extra fat off my body. Right now im 231 Lbs and Im 6'5". So this is a 2 part question... Whats the bestway to increase my vertical? And if I try to lose...
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    Advertising yourself as Virgin but not being one...

    Ive got an idea. Im not a virgin, but havent been laid in a while, and im inexperienced. What do you guys think about advertising yourself as a virgin on craigslist just to get some mercy lays. LOL...Yes I know its lazy, but I think it would probably work, especially if there was some old...
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