Thought I had a date with this girl. Now I find out some other guy (friend of mine) wants to join us. So she told him to ask me if it was ok. So, I tried to turn him away gently. Then they both got upset at me. Basically now I dont even want to do it at all. She said she didnt know it was a "date". "I didnt know you liked me like that" yadayadayada... Guess I was in the friends zone. Should I blow them both off to sacrifice my pride, or go with both of them and try to sacrifice my pride that way. Im thinking I flake on her, and say she can go with him. Basically I want suggestions for damage control, and to maybe somehow flip this to generate some attraction from her.