Went on two great dates with an awesome girl. Got attached way to quickly, I don't think I acted overly needy though. The only negative sign I got from her on the date last Sunday was that she said that she might be to busy to hang out this weekend. At this point I hadn't even asked her to though. So I txt'd twice the next day. Called tonight and left message, no response from call or text. Didn't even call to ask her on a date. Just to see what she was up to. I'm done trying to go after her at least for a couple weeks, unless I hear from her.
The puzzling thing is that on the first date she seemed very happy to be with me and said that she wanted to hang out again soon. She had all these ideas for things to do with me. So, I thought I was golden. Second date we had a real good time, or so I thought. She seemed happy other then saying that she might be to busy this weekend..which is fine, cause I've got **** to do to. We are both in grad school. I think it is possible that I might of offended her cause she told me she wanted to go see the "Benjamin Button" movie and I said I didn't want to cause I had already seen it and it was to long. But after that we were still fine and hung out for a couple more hours. Anyways, next her? or just chill and wait to see if she gets back to me, and call back in a couple weeks?
If I've been burnt...Ive learned my f-in lesson. I would like thoughts, advice, and or motivation to help get me out of a ****ty state of mind.
The puzzling thing is that on the first date she seemed very happy to be with me and said that she wanted to hang out again soon. She had all these ideas for things to do with me. So, I thought I was golden. Second date we had a real good time, or so I thought. She seemed happy other then saying that she might be to busy this weekend..which is fine, cause I've got **** to do to. We are both in grad school. I think it is possible that I might of offended her cause she told me she wanted to go see the "Benjamin Button" movie and I said I didn't want to cause I had already seen it and it was to long. But after that we were still fine and hung out for a couple more hours. Anyways, next her? or just chill and wait to see if she gets back to me, and call back in a couple weeks?
If I've been burnt...Ive learned my f-in lesson. I would like thoughts, advice, and or motivation to help get me out of a ****ty state of mind.