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Yeah she’s full of sh*t and odds are if you accept the invite she will flake again on Sat. There is putting up with flaky behaviour and then there is DEALING with it. Anyone see the difference? If you run away, “cross her off” “next” or “disqualify” any chick that acts flaky then you, my...

Ding! The relentless conveyor belt of age drops them off, one-by-one broken and disillusioned at my doorstep every day. They are so many that they accumulate in piles with only the brightest one’s grabbing my attention. I sh!tteth you not and this is not some tongue-in-cheek joke. It is...

Nice link wait out. What it points out, essentially, is there is nothing new under the sun. Faux celebrity, attention wh0ring, and the pretense of being “important” have always been around. The brilliance of social media is it lets everyone pretend to be a rock star. It taps the AW’ing piece...

I have 4 kids and am twice divorced. Neither marriage nor divorce ruins your life. Like all things…..you know the answer here…..YOU DO! It’s all on you. You are ultimately responsible for all things that happen to you. As with any major business or legal endeavor use caution, prepare...

This experiment could go on for months, leaving all involved with a mild headache. With so many fresh faces out there to play with I’m just not following the energy expenditure on these two, well, essentially, dead ends.

If it’s been a year since she broke up with her b/f then there are other issues above being the “rebound guy”. First: Do you know if she has gotten laid in a year? Seems doubtful but is possible. If that’s the case then you don’t need no stinkin SoSuave skills, just ground and pound! Leave...

Although I truly hate “da laws” I acquiesce to their useful functionality. Unpredictability is another of those tools in our toolbox, that like all tools, just F’n works. You can even get away with some common mistakes if you can wield this tool. Jo wields it with playful abandon because...

From the court’s perspective all they see is a terrified “victim” holding a screaming baby barricading themselves away from you and you broke down the door to get to them. That image alone is very damaging and, as my lawyer says, “has legs”. Depending on the state, a protective order...

It takes nads to post a FR knowing it will be picked apart. Nice work jophil28. The critical lesson I see here is you don’t have to tolerate sh*tty behavior from women, you call them on it, and, paradoxically, they are immediately more attracted to you for it. But this begs the question...

What does she want?

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I agree with jophil28. This is just normal as punch behavior that, if you let it, and don’t understand it, you will be a very frustrated guy. Several things stand out: 1) You are writing about it here; 2) This was MONTHS of wasted time and focus; 3) As stated a 100 times here, don’t mess...

The benefits of cold approaching go far beyond getting some digits and chasing girls. It’s about confidence, about focus, and developing subtle skills for dealing with and piquing the interest of women. It’s literally a social exercise that benefits you in every encounter in your...

Oh, man you really are swept up in it. The most evil part of the soulmate myth is it is self-reinforcing. The lie it tells you is you have only one lonely path and once you encounter a fair maiden on that path if you pass her by their will never be another….and you can never turn back...

ANYTHING you focus your attention on will become important to you. Whether that thing reciprocates or not is utterly irrelevant. If you stare with rapt attention at a dull brown rock then, after some time, that rock will become important to you. It becomes self-reinforcing. Even after you...

1) NO. She will inevitably contact you in some way purely out of curiosity and concern that you have not stroked her ego recently and you will misinterpret this as an indication of interest. It is not an IOI. But, most likely you will capitulate anyway, thus continuing the downward spiral. 2)...

I’ve obviously touched a nerve. As a former drug counselor all I can tell you is being an ****hole is part of the treatment. Recovery from this disease is very, very hard. Some of the same “druggies” I was an ***hole to 20 years ago still contact me today. These guys hated me with a passion. But...

May I paraphrase: thank you; I will. “I am a drug addict/alcoholic and I totally destroyed my own life. I perceive myself as a victim because I have not accepted responsibility for the damage I have wrought. My wife left me because I was horrible to be around. I was thrown in jail because I...

Here's a direct quote.... "Neither party shall expose their children to any illegal or immoral activities."

“Game” is a falsehood, a superficial pretense. The goal of “Game” is to incorporate it into one’s personality. Until it is done, it is training wheels, and those wheels fall off if over used. And once incorporated, the uninitiated will point to the man with women and say “he’s got game…”...