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Good work. I’d like to see more of this on the forum. Perhaps in a different section, though. We can learn a lot from each other this way.

Yes, this and other things that could be harmful to the kids. It's purposefully written to be vague to allow for flexibility and interpretation. A visiting BF that smokes pot is a one example. However, if you have full physical custody, as I do, you don't need an excuse to limit contact. You can...

I'm quoting straight out of my divorce decree for visitation. It's a protection for both to protect the kids from this behavior and allow for either to take legal action to protect the kids should they be exposed to this behavior.

I won full custody of my boys some time ago and I'm reading my divorce papers now.You need to have insurance, which holidays for whom, exact visitation times, and, of course, support. Inheritance, property, who the school contacts, babysitters, emergency contacts and stuff like that have come up...

Sometimes in a man’s life he is confronted with choices, paths, if you will, which, if correctly ascertained, carry with them certain potentialities, that require an informed decision knowing that certain costs, compromises, and sacrifices must be made to achieve the greater good. Choosing...

You or your wife can't meaningfully intervene with any advice unless it is specifically requested. Then you lay it on the line and your responsibility ends there with giving advice. Now as friends you should be supportive without taking sides. I'm not following exactly why this warrants so many...

I've done it both ways. Funny story from last year: A woman I dated kept ragging on me to let it grow gray since she thought it would look distinguished. No sh!t, she seemed to loose interest as it got grayer. I So I dyed it back and she later admitted she like it better dark. It's a fact...

I’ve actually had two marriages and 4 kids. I don’t regret one minute of any of it and I’m not condemning marriage or the stay-at-home mom. I’ve actually suggested that, given our long lifespans, you jump in and experience it. It will probably end but that’s not the point. You are here to...

So, what is your goal? A wife that answers to you, stays home while you work, two kids in the yard, a house on the hill with a picket fence? I literally had that for many years. But she self-destructed. Now I have the younger two kids with me and I answer to no one. I own the game...

So true. But, the challenge is to keep picking. Keep moving, keep sorting and sifting. I personally have found the journey is a much, if not more, interesting than the end goal.

I plan on having my staff look after me in my old age. They will do it well because I will pay them well. Successful men do not worry about their old age. I'm only partially kidding. I have 4 kids and, yes, my older two are grown and a bit selfish, but I don't want them to worry about...

You will need resources to be a factor in your child’s life. I divorced and only because I preserved my resources did I win full physical custody of my children. Children come first before all else. Since my life includes my children I did not feel I could be in charge of my life until I was...

I am not celibate, I do have sex with married women, I do cheat, and I do deceive. I am a human being and I have found all moralist arguments are full of sound and fury signifying nothing.

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Excellent thought-provoking post. I understand this as a framework to comprehend a woman’s seemingly irrational behavior. If you understand the motivation and drive behind the behavior then you see the wizard behind the curtain pulling the strings. Sorta like when you first found out...

Without saying a word you are communicating in literally hundreds of non verbal ways. This can’t be taught and it can’t be faked. And, for the most part, you are unaware of the vibe you are giving off. It’s very subtle. Women react to in without knowing how they react to it. As DonS...

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So many words for this chick, so much attention and focus, and to be classifying her as a potential LTR? That’s the biggest red flag. Potential LTR, huh? How do you know this? I think you’ve lost your frame, your focus, and the power. Stop it with all the words and plans for the...

I’m briefly combing the ancient and overused looks thread with some fundamental laws that usurp all else. At any age, if you are engaging, humorous, challenging, and have some looks, you will succeed. Their really are no exceptions. This very simple formula works and has worked for me...

A man can't git got.