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Once upon a time I married a coworker. It did not end well. If you do a search here you will find far more threads stating it is not wise to date a coworker. Why do you think that is? One of the many benefits of SoSuave is the “library”, if you will, of shared experiences from many men...

When I see someone posting very frequently the first thing I think is they are not applying the concepts and principles here in the real world with real women. I have repeated this number of times but the real work in developing yourself as a man and in dealing with women is in the field, not...

This is not a new concept. Growing up my father took me to the hunting lodge occasionally which served the same purpose. That tradition went back into the 1800’s. For those who say the Matrix was created in the 60’s with women’s liberation this proves its been around much longer and is...

Like any skill as you do it more it becomes natural. Here’s an old post I made on the way I used to approach. It’s very regimented but was a summation of what I had learned. I mutated it significantly and stopped thinking of the steps and just felt it as a natural process. It’s just normal...

Age is irrelevant. Stop thinking about it. The same DJ rules apply, they are universal. Don’t look for IOI’s. Always assume she is into you, assume all is well. Always escalate, meet resistance, pull back, re-escalate. Repeat. I will disagree on maturity level of younger women...

Don’t just leave here, take what you have learned here with you into the field, the real world and practice practice practice! Many spend far too much time on here and fail to implement what they learn here in their lives. There is more here than anyone can grasp at one time. Go, come...

This is a sh*t test of course in which any reaction at all you fail. Remember you will never lose a woman who remains attracted to you. Why and what got her attracted to you? Get back to doing what you did in the first place to attract her. Women smell insecurity and it turns them...

Let me answer with a question: Can you truly lie if you don’t know the truth? My opinion is few know the truth, few are authentic, few are grounded in such a way that to lie is utterly impossible. Isn’t lying nothing but another form of ignorance? For, in truth, their can be no lie...

Their is nothing for which to apologize. This is a tempest in a teapot. Don't lock these threads, delete them; they distract and detract from the message.

MySpace is just another tool. To me, it’s a very efficient advertising tool to market an excellent product: ME. All I can tell ya is it works. I still do cold approaches every single day but I get more out of MySpace for the time invested. BTW time on this board arguing with other men is...

This is a great nugget of thinking STR8UP. I am living this now. Except I’ll throw a twist at you from my reality: I am the A man and the B man to a woman now. I am her number one top man but in B man status playing second to her idealized romanticized idea of what she wants me to be in her...

It been a while since I posted here and I do plan on getting back here some more to share the positive results of what I have learned here. But I have simply been to busy, too happy, and my plates literally runneth over. All I tell ya Firefly is to read, practice in real life, share, pay...

I think you should take STR8UP’s AND Joekerr31’s advice. Joekerr says rid yourself of toxic people. My long personal experience is that when you have a healthy person paired up with a toxic one, the healthy one NEVER brings the toxic one up, it’s always the reverse, the toxic one brings the...

Early 30’s seem to be the sweet spot for me. Last year I dated younger but I am now seeing it was all for my ego and to show off; not for me. I was never totally comfortable with them. Anything older and they can’t keep up physically. I do a lot of outdoor things and if they are not in shape...

I think we need to split hairs a bit in that I believe there are differing definitions of what mystery is. I think many assume the “blank canvas” methodology is what is meant, and on this point I agree with Joekerr31 that as the painting is revealed over time it is not the masterpiece she’s...

I’m a divorced dad and I tend to stay away from divorced moms. They are a complicated mess. I do not advocate getting involved with divorced moms; period. You can do better. For those advocating finding the “right woman” I think you are making one big assumption: That you and she remain...

We’ve had some massive threads on marriage and the majority came down against it. For those like me, who are older and had a FEW marriages it’s an easy call. FVVVVVKKKK NOOOOO!! But if you are just 30 and never been married the social pressure to get married can be intense. Then you get...

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Why do you want to keep her as a friend? Her connections with other women; she a job reference; is she the best mixed doubles tennis partner in the city? I’m not being flippant here, if there is no specific reason then don’t do it. If you are doing it to be “decent” and “nice” to her then...

Helluva good job Aenigma bringing this HERE where it belongs. Strauss’ stuff is a nicely packaged product drawing on much of the vast resources contained here. None of it is new, of course. When I logged into MySpace this morning there was Strauss’ advertisement running endlessly over and...