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    middle-aged and meeting the parents ?

    I’ll never forget 25 years ago driving to Baltimore to spend the weekend with my gf at her house and meet her parents. I was so nervous I puked after dinner that Friday night. I remember every excruciating detail of that entire weekend. I’m a lot less nervous now, actually completely...
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    You're never too old ... 59-year old football player

    Well, two marriages later and a whole bunch of “three in the mud and punts” I am still looking for some good ones. I take full responsibility, I choose poorly. This article hits close to home. I got injured in my junior year of college and have one year left of ncaa eligibility. I...
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    Lets Talk Fundamentals

    Great job getting numbers. Repeat daily. A DJ will glean a little info here, go into the world and try it out. Refine it and make up his own rules based on what works for him. Listen to everyone, follow no one.
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    Need some advice please...should I just move on?...

    Yet another reason, I guess it’s up to reason number 4007, why you always, always have options with other women. I swear to you that you will almost, almost, be Teflon coated from chick-sh*t like this if you can always, in your mind, simply, focus your attention away from this one and onto...
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    Wow.....just.....WOW....

    To hell with your business partner. You are required to go for this one. Never, ever, never never ever let a good opportunity pass you by without taking your shot.
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    Would you fukk an engaged ex?

    It depends greatly how she thinks about sex. If she thinks that sex = love then no it would be “immoral” to do so. If she thinks that sex = fun then your violation is superficial. Many women (and DJ’s too) equate sex with a special closeness and bond that is deeply meaningful.
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    Approaching 10's

    The reason your results are poor on the street is you have almost no material to open with, you have no legitimacy. That’s why I seldom do street approaches. A VU demonstrates, hitting a moving target is hard, why not wait until it is stationary? All these “10’s” have to be going somewhere...
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    "When emotions are flaring"

    I’m finding more and more that assuming (and behaving) like all is well goes a long way in smoothing out those peaks and valley’s of their emotional roller coasters. This is a corollary of assuming they like you as well. I don’t insult them by pretending all is well while they are spewing...
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    Met a woman in my office building. Seek her out or wait to "bump" into her again?

    Oh man, many of us have been there. I remember my oneitis more than a year ago now. Nasty stuff. Total mind-fvck. I played this song by Yellow Card “Let Her Goooo” (That song was so bad I believe I deserved every ounce of pain). Because I had to work with her I made up all these ridiculous...
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    women today - poll

    I see at this early stage the poll is swinging to “lower quality” dramatically. As we sit around our digital campfire complaining about women I have to laugh and think that the very same discussions had to have occurred around a real campfire 20 thousand years ago. I have lived through...
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    Are there any attractive single women left?

    Of course there are. But they may be in places you would not expect. I keep finding new places that surprise me. Home Depot anyone? If they are not engaged or married it really means “I’m looking for the next best guy to come along…” That would be you, of course. Check out my link below.
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    Becoming a father

    I have four children. Like anything else, it is what you make of it. It really is like what BLP says sometimes. For the other times just keep in mind it will make you a better at handling stress than you ever thought possible. Now, from a man’s standpoint I found the first year the hardest...
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    REAL tough one, expert DJ opinions needed

    I've had two failed marriages and when we focused on the kids and the house, yes, we were on the same team. Other than these specific goals we were not on the same team. Never. You mean DJ's have flaws? The whole disclosure issue is somewhat clouded. You never have to tell anybody a damn...
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    REAL tough one, expert DJ opinions needed

    I'm not disagreeing with you. I apply generous helpings of DJ knowledge in my relationships. What I have been working towards is internalizing this knowledge and making it a part of my personality. I've said this before, but any man that can internalize just 2% of what's on this site is in the...
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    REAL tough one, expert DJ opinions needed

    An authentic, legitimate game is not played: It is lived, it is natural and it is what you are at your core. You don't have to TRY to do anything, you just do it. All else is a contrivance and disingenuous. Plus, my attention span is to short to remember all that sh*t. I think people miss...
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    REAL tough one, expert DJ opinions needed

    First, cut out analyzing her, paraphrasing what she means and trying to figure out how she feels. Are you trying to give yourself an aneurism? Geez, you are not going to figure her out with thinking. Only action, only what she does can tell you. First, real basic: does she orgasm when you...
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    am i playing the game alright?

    Good game involves a little more subtlety than we sometimes post on these boards. Your overall gameplan is sound, but you don’t have to take it over-the-top literally with grinding other girls around her. Your overall goal is simply not to focus too much attention on her because, hopefully...
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    The only one who loves you is your MOMMA

    If anything, your post is inspiring to me in that, perhaps, I could be a better friend to a few friends I have that I know are going through rough times. Sometimes though, its hard to know if they really need help because they don’t ask and don’t want to admit they could use help. Now, this...
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    Making up for lost times

    Yeah, I’m a little over 26 but I don’t feel like I’ve lost or wasted one second of time in the past. The past does not exist; it’s gone, finished, over. Nor do I feel the future rushing towards me either. It’s the same as the past, it does not exist either. The only thing you can...
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    The only one who loves you is your MOMMA

    So when two people say they love each other, or love each other “unconditionally” then, according to the DSM 4R they are suffering from folie á deux: or, more correctly: 297.3 Shared Psychotic Disorder, a shared delusion. I do have to ask if a shared delusion such as this is any less “real”...
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