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I have faith that if, in your mind, you did hang up your social life completely and focus on work, your social life would find you on your terms.

I’ve had more marriages, more kids, more jobs, more unpleasant events, and more years in this world than most of you so I can report to you unequivocably that: THE WORLD IS THE BEST IT’S EVER BEEN AND IT’S GETTING BETTER EVERY DAY. So I mean this in the nicest way when I say: Get a life...

It’s not about time, it’s not about energy: it’s about control. Specifically, internal locus of control. If you feel in control, the master of your domain, then the hours are almost irrelevant, whether the work is “hard” or not is irrelevant. Very, very small slices of entertainment...

The BF is irrelevant. You’ve been on this site a while so you know the only way to find out is to escalate and completely ignore the so-called BF issue. The distance IS relevant. I’ve done the Im, the pic swapping, even live video: none of it is real if you can’t touch them. Please don’t...

No. The pool is getting larger. I continue to be surprised by the number of women in there 20’s that have no problem with me. The only thing holding me back is me. I’m still surprised when I look into their eyes and they have that funny dazed look and I realize, hell, they are actually into...

Operant conditioning. They get rewarded for it so they keep doing it. Chumps reward them. Chumps are the majority. I have not had 100% success with this but my life has improved so much with women since I started to just back the fvck away from them the minute they exhibit this...

That’s “Magnificent Bastards” to you LMS. I remember I posted a thread on this. But since I didn’t spell out I was talking about sex and our needs as biological beings it quickly vanished. Plus, I was stating the obvious. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=119385

Funniest show on TV. Christ RT you called it: I have never seen men cry so much in my life. I was crying too, because I was laughing so hard. Mystery must have some hella good mascara because his didn’t run a bit when his waterworx began!!! I’m gonna send ‘em an idea, hum…….what would...

I think I have rewritten my response on this very excellent thread several times, looking at different perspectives. The question was: “How many can we juggle?” Like so many things, it’s totally subjective. The critical point is not really how many but that you CAN juggle. Plate...

LOL. Thanks, I got tired of plugging my own post all the time.

From the minute you step out your door in the morning until you return in the evening you are almost always, in some manner, in the company of women. Most men let many opportunities go by every day. Let me break it down a bit: IF YOU’RE ACTUAL EYEBALLS SEE AN ACTUAL WOMAN ANYWHERE...

I’m sure there are plenty of locations where the quality of women varies greatly, so I can understand drawing the conclusion that overall quality has gone down. But, if your sample is very small its not very accurate to make assumptions for all women. My perspective is they have not...

I have 4 kids. As far as DJing goes there is some truth to the ease and availability and automatic social proof you have with single mothers. I have been down that path with several young, very hot, single mothers. Unfortunately, the flaws that contributed to their breakups remain...

I’m in my 3rd or 4th re-reading of The Way of Zen. Since my book is an original (I’m old, remember) it’s so beat up the pages are falling apart. And before this gets moved to AE I would like to note that there are some very strong streams of Zen running through our own DJ materials. Not...

Not all Zen Budhists practice Zazen (sitting meditation) or non involvement. Fvcking is great meditation:up: I’ve derailed this thread enough. The fact that Owen Wilson did it over a chick is yet another reminder of how deeply ingrained AFC thinking is in this culture. There are...

Ah, we have the good old Puritan ethic to thank for this fvcked up mentality. You’re not even supposed to enjoy anything now, and if you do, it’s probably a bad thing. You’re supposed to suffer and sacrifice now and your rewards are in heaven. Sensual pleasure is doubly bad. An insidious...

Great thread. Powerful sh*t. So very very few men have the disciple to pull this off it really does shock the woman when you do it. As a matter of fact, it works so well that if you are actually nexting someone it raises their IL so much its easy to cave to them and let them creep back...

As long as you remain the better man you will not lose them to another. If you give in to jealousy and insecurity you are no longer the better man.

I cringe when I think about what else you could have done with those 5 months. I’m with Joe, she did you a favor, but, I have to wonder if you had been seeing one or two others if she would have been so quick to dump you. I’m not criticizing you, as unpleasant as it is, it’s a painful...

Practical advice: Get a calendar and use that sucker. I sh*t you not. Thanks to the pill, many women have very defined times for their period. If you are in any kind of semi-LTR you need to know when that time is. You can’t call her on moods and feelings, even unusual anger, but you should...