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It's happened to me on more than several occasions. Never assume anything when it comes to women. NEVER. In one instance, I heard through the grapevine that this girl was into me. Day one, met up at a party, dance, kino...Next day, another party, walk her back to her room, invite myself in...

Good job but one word of caution. Don't be someone who talks a big game but can't back it up. I'm working on this too. The C&F is nice but if the next time you guys meet you don't come correct (ie continue to escalate), you'll just be all talk. You need to be congruent. It even sounds like she...

True that... Reminds me of when an acquaintance of mine posted some note on facebook criticizing "the game." Women and even a few guys posted, giving the guy tremendous props. I was so tempted to get on there and set the guy straight but I decided against it. I'd end up looking like the...

Dunno. I'll ask tomorrow.

Last week me and my friend went a party. He started talking w/a girl who apparently he met a week earlier. I stayed on the sidelines but after a friend of mine came by and loudly shot the **** w/me, she started giving me IOIs. "I like your shirt" "You've seen you around...you're a rather...

You did well. I wouldn't have said "I had a good time" twice but that's just nitpicking. You chatted for a bit and went for the number. Good line too: "alright heres the most important number youll ever put in your phone!"

Possibly. Could go either way. Assume that it is an IOI. There are plenty of ways to reply to this. "Who says we're friends in real life?" "I don't really do facebook. Let me get your number instead..." etc etc

I believe girls' opinions are valid to some degree. I go to my girl friends and mother at times for advice. But I also know when what they say is BS. Don't take your sister's advice. Call.

You're that rare brand of troll that is also a sociopath... Same writing style, same bait, same everything. sigh

I don't know if it's what the OP has in mind but start a video journal. Talk about your day and watch it back. Did wonders for my social anxiety. By seeing myself on camera I saw a much more articulate, confident and interesting person than what I thought. Then it's just the process of moving...

Not to sound mean but you know you're on the wrong track when you're going through logistics like this. Even worse, you went through the logistics with HER. How awkward. At the end of the day, she rejected you. Keep the number, delete the number, keep her on facebook, delete her...It doesn't...

^^^^ LOL. Thanks for spelling out the innuendo for us...

"You can't fight it." That's cold man. I'm gonna use that some time.

Smooth...and nicely written too

IMO, I don't think the convo was good. I used to be serious and formal when IMing. Now I rarely ask questions like "what's up?" etc... Take note of more interesting things like her status, a funny wall post and start w/that. When you feel you've been talking to her for long enough, say something...

LOL, WHAT????

Some help on this would really be appreciated.

You did. Except it's no test. It's an invitation. Close.

Last semester I was going after this girl who overtly made it known that she found me attractive. She met my friend soon after and apparently had had a crush on him since freshman year. She didn't seem to be feeling me as much so I threw in the towel. I still went to her parties and one night I...

I disagree. I've been that ****y before and it has worked. OP, I think you're doing fine, especially logging off after asking for the number twice. She's interested it sounds like.