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I've never placed that much importance on a kiss, anymore than any other night, but girls I think do. Use that to your advantage. I've got a modest streak going-3 yrs--of hooking up on NYE. I go to house parties where if I didn't know the host, a friend or a friend of a friend did. Girls are...

OP is right. The best nights I've had to date--getting a models # ( I never called lol), getting w/a few AWs--have come when I've been hyped. Chillin' with with the boys, listening to music, an epic sports game, hell even video games. I'm an introvert at heart so it's especially important...

I'd like to get to the point where I could say this: "Yes, I have. In fact, I'm cheating on you right now."

This thread is funny. If I were on another site w/a different persona I would go off, but I come here for positivity not negativity. For now I'll simply say that a reasonable, well-adjusted, secure man would never produce the reaction that the OP and others have. You can de-racialize it all...

You'll be nervous and shy this weekend then. Just being blunt about it...You won't change overnight. That said, you probably won't do as badly as you imagine yourself doing. The date might start out roughly but pick up steam as you get more comfortable. Plus, you have time on you side. You'll...

Girl: Can you take a picture of me (my friends)? Me: And what will I get in return? I'm 100% when using this line. For some reason the girl always "gets it." At the very least I'll get an IOI. Kiss closes come with HER initiating it. I've never used it as an opener though. Only with girls...

Like it or not, technology is here to stay. I for one am thankful for that. It's always come intuitively for me, maybe not for you. You should spend time figuring out these things on your own. I would NEVER let anyone set up a social networking profile for me. I will NEVER use twitter either...

LOL. She's aight. Not worthy of one-its though.

Agreed 100%. I've been trim my whole life and it hasn't stopped me from getting attention. In addition, when I put on 10 lbs of muscle, I'd say I got around the same attention. Friends noticed the new change and I felt good but that's about it. And as for many women being shy, that's true...

Social Anxiety Disorder. Go see professional that specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Treatment for SAD. I know about these symptoms/thoughts/feelings all too well. A couple of years back when I was in HS, I only left the house to go to school because of fear. I had no friends. The funny part...

Brilliant. Which is not to say that you did everything "perfectly" but when it mattered you put your foot down. I wish I realized this stuff when I was your age.

Nevermind what she's doing. What about you? What do you want to do? Meet up with her...right? So take the lead and make plans with her.

1. Don't ask in the future. Just do. 2. Sounds like she was kidding.

Tough to tell. Could go either way. You should have called her out on her flirtatious ways, which also would have helped you gauge interest. For example, the "are you single" question...You could have said "hey, wait a minute! This isn't part of your training manual, is it?" Something to that...

Let me give you two answers. #1. Never ask a woman what you did wrong after the fact. I tried it with my first gf a month after the fact. You know, to get "closure." Her answers were even more preposterous than when we broke up. The only thing that was clear was that she didn't want to be...

It's useless to compare yourself with others. There will always be someone smarter than you. There will always be someone better-looking than you are. Make up for it in game. That's the leveling factor. Also, from my experience, it just depends on the girl. We all have preferences. One of my...

NewAndImproved 21 yrs old...just graduated college! What I have gained: -Hookups, dated around but never gone all the way -Have a solid group of friends again -Overcome much of my social anxiety (used to be afraid to go outside) What I hope to gain: -Have more options! -Learn more about...

You sound a lot like me. First, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Since your friend's gf is trying to hook you up, the girl must like you. So try to relax. Second, get into a good state before you guys hang out. Lift. Mediate. Play a sport. Run. Do anything but stress about the...

Odds are, you won't. What you're describing sounds like social anxiety, which is marked by habitual negative/unrealistic thinking patterns. If you've been thinking negatively for so long, you're not going to stop even by "trying really hard." Saying something like "each day I'm going to note...

One thing is clear, you're not as confident as your note purports. IMO, you're fine. The girl is just throwing you sh!t tests to see if you're congruent. Right now, you don't seem to be.