Cassanova_Child
Don Juan
Bear with me through the wall of text guys, sorry, but its necassary, no way to shorten it down....
So with the help of this site, both my game with women and my outlook on life has improved and changed drastically.
I was never a failure with women - just your normal guy, not an AFC, not a PUA or a DJ or anything like that.
Now I've found myself, instead of aiming at the HB 6 - 8, im aiming at HB 8 - 10.
The current girl I've been hitting on for about 1 1/2 months now is considered in the top 10 of the 150 girls in our high school, shes a freshmen, I'm a sophomore.
I started talking to her 1 1/2 months ago, we have some common friends, she hooked up with one of my best friends at the beginning of the school year, but I never spoke to her before. She had just broken up with her boyfriend, another freshman (who has an older brother, a junior).
We talked about four days, and then on a Saturday she confessed I was a person she could have sex with in the future. Two days after that she admitted that she liked me. She asked me if I liked her too. Foolishly, I said yes at the time, even though I didn't, I just found her hot. A few days later, though, I started liking her too (after I really started to get to know her).
So we chill(ed) everyday and people started to assume we were going out - apparently I've gained something of a reputation lol. Including her ex (who funnily enough, I used to play soccer and Warhammer with back in middle school, but forgot who he was). He gives me dirty looks now.
So I find out (about the same time I start to like her) that she hooked up with her ex's older brother in the grade above me a few times after they broke up, because she was really depressed over their breakup, people were ripping on her, etc... (I confirmed this with her 2 closest friends, who are sick of her behavior).
So one day, I ask her, "you like me, I like you, wanna just make it official?" (im aware, not the smoothest thing lol, but I'm still learning). She's like no, its too soon after my ex and the incident with his brother, people would make fun of me. I personally find it ridiculous, but I can understand it, self conscious girls dont wanna look like sluts.
so our school has this outdoor educational thing for freshmen, they go on a canoe trip for a week. her entire trip she called me every night. that was kinda cool, made me feel kinda special (got too emotionally invested too soon)
she comes back, the flirting continues, she starts every conversation we have. at school though, she acts like i dont matter and I'm just another one of those guys who follows her like a puppy dog, but when we're by ourself anywhere, she cuddles up with me and she says she hates how she has to pretend at school. Whatever, I keep things going, but I've sorta found that the other girls I was gaming became less important.
FAST FORWARD to this last week:
I find out that on that trip thing, she was also talking to her ex on the phone (who didn't go) and his brother. At that point she was still not fully over him (or so I guess), but now she hates him (hes been trying to get back together). That kinda bothered me.
But I found out that the brother was talking to her cause he wants to get with one of her friends - so that wasn't an issue anymore, it seemed like things were fine.
Then today, we were hanging out by this pier place near our school. and people were taking pictures. there's a picture of me hugging her from behind; she really liked the picture then.
Today it got uploaded onto facebook. She threw a fit. She told the guy who uploaded it to delete it. I commented: "I like this, don't delete it". She flips a **** on AIM, tells me to delete my comment, etc.... I asked her why, she says shes sick of how her grade assumes we're a couple and the picture reinforces that idea. I told her that's silly and that she shouldn't care what people think.
She says that if I don't delete it, she will never talk to me again. I'm like, ok, whatever. I delete the picture.
Next minute I tell her:
"you are too used to getting your own way from guys, probably because you are gorgeous and that's how **** works, guys do stuff for gorgeous girls lol. but it needs to change. you cant get your way all the time."
"you are too used to getting your way all the time from your friends and guys, thats not a good thing all the time."
"its kinda a problem, but its part of you, im not gonna try to change it, i wouldnt try to change it."
"But your not getting your way with me - I RUN this, I don't get played by people, I don't like bull****."
she goes completely silent. her fb status becomes:
What have I got to do to make you love me, What have I got to do to make you care? What do I do when lightning strikes me, And I wake to find that you're not there.
Then she went into a little depression and isnt talking to anyone else all night.
Her two best friends are sick of her also. Ive been texting one about it all night, but she's actually the exact same as the girl I'm interested in, she's just not hot enough to get the same sort of attention.
The other one though, had her head on correctly. she'll just think you're *****ing and come running to us girls saying "omg matt is such a bastard, he thinks he knows me blah blah blah..."
and
i love zsofia. shes my belgian sister. but like you said, she ****ing needs it. im tired of hearing her get hurt the same way every time. im tired of her asking me for advice and when i do give it to her, she dont listen. she then gets hurt, and the cycle repeats itself.
The girl doesnt learn, its what I'm thinking. Her ex broke up with HER, and not the other way around, which was completely shocking to her, because she's a
So with the help of this site, both my game with women and my outlook on life has improved and changed drastically.
I was never a failure with women - just your normal guy, not an AFC, not a PUA or a DJ or anything like that.
Now I've found myself, instead of aiming at the HB 6 - 8, im aiming at HB 8 - 10.
The current girl I've been hitting on for about 1 1/2 months now is considered in the top 10 of the 150 girls in our high school, shes a freshmen, I'm a sophomore.
I started talking to her 1 1/2 months ago, we have some common friends, she hooked up with one of my best friends at the beginning of the school year, but I never spoke to her before. She had just broken up with her boyfriend, another freshman (who has an older brother, a junior).
We talked about four days, and then on a Saturday she confessed I was a person she could have sex with in the future. Two days after that she admitted that she liked me. She asked me if I liked her too. Foolishly, I said yes at the time, even though I didn't, I just found her hot. A few days later, though, I started liking her too (after I really started to get to know her).
So we chill(ed) everyday and people started to assume we were going out - apparently I've gained something of a reputation lol. Including her ex (who funnily enough, I used to play soccer and Warhammer with back in middle school, but forgot who he was). He gives me dirty looks now.
So I find out (about the same time I start to like her) that she hooked up with her ex's older brother in the grade above me a few times after they broke up, because she was really depressed over their breakup, people were ripping on her, etc... (I confirmed this with her 2 closest friends, who are sick of her behavior).
So one day, I ask her, "you like me, I like you, wanna just make it official?" (im aware, not the smoothest thing lol, but I'm still learning). She's like no, its too soon after my ex and the incident with his brother, people would make fun of me. I personally find it ridiculous, but I can understand it, self conscious girls dont wanna look like sluts.
so our school has this outdoor educational thing for freshmen, they go on a canoe trip for a week. her entire trip she called me every night. that was kinda cool, made me feel kinda special (got too emotionally invested too soon)
she comes back, the flirting continues, she starts every conversation we have. at school though, she acts like i dont matter and I'm just another one of those guys who follows her like a puppy dog, but when we're by ourself anywhere, she cuddles up with me and she says she hates how she has to pretend at school. Whatever, I keep things going, but I've sorta found that the other girls I was gaming became less important.
FAST FORWARD to this last week:
I find out that on that trip thing, she was also talking to her ex on the phone (who didn't go) and his brother. At that point she was still not fully over him (or so I guess), but now she hates him (hes been trying to get back together). That kinda bothered me.
But I found out that the brother was talking to her cause he wants to get with one of her friends - so that wasn't an issue anymore, it seemed like things were fine.
Then today, we were hanging out by this pier place near our school. and people were taking pictures. there's a picture of me hugging her from behind; she really liked the picture then.
Today it got uploaded onto facebook. She threw a fit. She told the guy who uploaded it to delete it. I commented: "I like this, don't delete it". She flips a **** on AIM, tells me to delete my comment, etc.... I asked her why, she says shes sick of how her grade assumes we're a couple and the picture reinforces that idea. I told her that's silly and that she shouldn't care what people think.
She says that if I don't delete it, she will never talk to me again. I'm like, ok, whatever. I delete the picture.
Next minute I tell her:
"you are too used to getting your own way from guys, probably because you are gorgeous and that's how **** works, guys do stuff for gorgeous girls lol. but it needs to change. you cant get your way all the time."
"you are too used to getting your way all the time from your friends and guys, thats not a good thing all the time."
"its kinda a problem, but its part of you, im not gonna try to change it, i wouldnt try to change it."
"But your not getting your way with me - I RUN this, I don't get played by people, I don't like bull****."
she goes completely silent. her fb status becomes:
What have I got to do to make you love me, What have I got to do to make you care? What do I do when lightning strikes me, And I wake to find that you're not there.
Then she went into a little depression and isnt talking to anyone else all night.
Her two best friends are sick of her also. Ive been texting one about it all night, but she's actually the exact same as the girl I'm interested in, she's just not hot enough to get the same sort of attention.
The other one though, had her head on correctly. she'll just think you're *****ing and come running to us girls saying "omg matt is such a bastard, he thinks he knows me blah blah blah..."
and
i love zsofia. shes my belgian sister. but like you said, she ****ing needs it. im tired of hearing her get hurt the same way every time. im tired of her asking me for advice and when i do give it to her, she dont listen. she then gets hurt, and the cycle repeats itself.
The girl doesnt learn, its what I'm thinking. Her ex broke up with HER, and not the other way around, which was completely shocking to her, because she's a
