alright since i'm still a novice and my game isn't 100% on point yet I'm gonna post a convo we had after we got back from the game last night. please let me know how yall think i did and what i can improve on.
she had to drive back to school last night right after i dropped her off since she had to work, and was gonna be by herself in her dorm all last night studying for some 'test' she had to take at her job today.
quick recap:
-we met up late thursday night (she was at another school about 2 hrs ago getting in a fight with her ex boyfriend...red flag i know, that's why im not expecting much out of this).
-me and my buddy ended up staying with her and her roommate.
-i stayed in her bed but didnt make a move.
-we all went out to breakfast the next day
-she texts me out of the blue friday night and invites me to a movie. we go, talk for about an hour afterwards in her car and makeout for a little bit.
-she asked if i wanted to go to a baseball game with her on saturday if i wasnt busy...i made her sweat for a bit then accepted. we went to the game, had a good time, talked pretty much the whole time. i drive her back home, we makeout for a second and then she has to go.
-i told her i was goin out and to text me if she got bored. she hit me up about 1 this morning when i was chillin at my buddies place.
her: is it a good time to take you up on that offer? lol 
me: ha i guess i could spare you some of my time hows the studying
her: lol well if you're busy its ok. but it sucks and its scary bein in my room all alone. no one is here.
me: nah i can multitask but its hard havin to beat all these women off with a stick and txt at the same time. put on some music and start singing that should scare anyone off
((((she mentioned earlier she liked to sing all the time but wasn't any good))))
her: haha sure mr. ****y are we? dont let me distract u and haha real funny but there is no one here to scare away. im all alone. and its kinda creepy all alone.
me: na i followed you im lookin thru the window
((((i had already teased her about following her home the first night we went out, she has had a lot of creepers stalkin her and told me a bunch of stories about that))))
her: creeper. what did u use your rope ladder to climb up to the 3rd floor? lol. and if u really were lookin it would be bad bc i'm in my bra and underwear lol
((((i mistakenly passed up a a few cues she gave me to start talking about sex when we were together in person so i knew i HAD to do somethin here))))
me: Yea i was about to say im gettin pretty bored here in this tree.. go ahead and slip out of that
her: haha. ur dumb. my goodies, not urs and i don't wanna make you fall out of the tree and hurt urself from excitement
me: psh whatever its gonna take a lot more than that to make me fall out of a tree i am not some piece of meat woman
her: oh really? so ur an ******* and hard to please i see. climb on down then and come on in haha jk i'm def. not a slut. and i don't think ur a piece of meat.
me: haha look at lil _____ tryin to talk a big game. listen i already got enough girls tryin to use me for my body i dont need another. gosh its so degrading
her: lol u are so ****y. i got plenty of guys wantin me..hell i probably do really have one lookin at me now since i attract creepers. but serious note (very rare so pay attention)...ur bodies not that great. u got big ears and girl legs hahaha
((((whenever i'd tease her about anything, her being short, etc. she would neg be back about these))))
me: o man wait til your friends find out you are lusting after a dude with girl legs!
her: haha who said i was lustin after u? don't flatter yourself now lil ___ ___ ___ ((((my full name...i guess she was mirroring me here? i had just called her "lil :her name: earlier)))).
i think ur the one who made all the moves not me lol
me: yea when u were in your bed tellin yourself "man i hope he gets in bed with me" you were actually sayin it outloud. so i felt like i had to you know
her: haha right. no i was tellin myself o great now i have to sleep in the crack against the wall lol. but its ok im a nice person and i let u stay . u should feel special
me: psh i always feel special. but youre welcome for makin a move i know u would have felt terrible if i didnt so i had to force myself
((((eh could have done better here, in my defense i was tired haha))))
her: haha ur an *******. u know u wanted to. but im hittin the bed. im so tired. goodnight. thanks for a fun weekend
me: yea i had a good time enjoy that 12 hr shift tomorrow haha. goodnight
so that was it. we haven't talked today. (another thing i need to get over...i get paranoid when a girl goes a day without tryin to talk to me. dont worry, i don't get desperate and start contacting her, its just in my head. guess its whats left of my inner neediness.)
not sure where to go from here. there are tons of IOI's, i noticed her mirroring me, she constantly called me an ******* (in a playful way), ****y, etc...she initiated both of the dates... the 2 times we made out were not for long because both were in our cars and it was as we were about to go our separate ways. havent been in a situation with her yet where i could do much more.
about the ex-boyfriend.. dont worry i never once asked about him and i made sure to kind of blow her off every time she brought him up. from what i gathered, they broke up a few months ago. she told me that they had been together all throughout the time she was in HS...she's a freshman in college this year and he's my age, a junior. he was apparently her first in just about everything. she seemed to really try and make a point that she is the one who lost feelings. she said they never had sex the last year because she just wasn't "feeling" it with him.
she said that he is dating other girls but keeps texting her saying that he loves her and sees them being married some day, stuff like that. now if i took her word for it it'd sound like she was over him and he was being an afc. but ive noticed that the little quotes she puts on her facebook page are all about him. heres an example:
"Someday I'm gonna run across your mind, Don't worry, I'll be fine, I'm gonna be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride, Wishing I could hold you tight, I'll be over you, And on with my life.."
sounds lke shes still got feelings for him and is trying to get over him. i know she's dated a couple guys since they broke up. what am i looking at here? i feel like i'm definitely better than whoever this guy is but i know its hard for some girls to get past a relationship that lasted so long. how would you guys deal with this?
i've gotta head home for a day this weekend and her school is right on the way so i may see if she wants to get somethin to eat and stop by on the way, but im not sure yet.
do i wait for her to contact me or hit her up later on? i know i'm way overanalyzing everything but like i said i'm still new and trying to drill this **** into my brain. i'm a really funny person naturally and ive always been good at teasing girls, but other parts of the game i am not good at.
thanks in advance for anyone who decides to read this novel and give me some advice. hopefully one day when i'm on top of my game i can help guys like me out!!
