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MOST OF SEDUCTION IS A LIE - seduction is about FANTASY - not reality. just ask the women - what do you think all the make up, high heels, push up bras and stuff are for? same thing with men, most of us put on a "game face" that represents not only the "BEST POSSIBLE US" on a date (which in...

cod3r, every time we approach, the only thing that we're saying is "i want to fvck you!" (exclamation point optional) you say that it's pathetic to apologize for approaching a girl and yet you would apologize for that last bit - THE REASON WE ARE APPROACHING IN THE FIRST PLACE! incongruous...

oh, another thing - your SUBCONSCIOUS.... the thing about reading and studying and learning is that hopefully, you are not just getting material into your cerebral cortex but you are seeding your subconscious mind. you really study study study... then, when you go off and do other things and...

yes, do and be as you will. but if you are thinking about going for the broadest appeal possible, consider: again regarding MOVIE STARS - who do chicks go nuts over? it is almost NEVER arnold or stallone. again - brad, keanu, clive, jude, etc. in fact, the only exception to this i can think...

oh please.... this just sounds like whining. how many obese unattractive burger flippers are you willing to "give a chance" to? i would imagine that there are LEGIONS, PHALANXES, BATTALIONS of women that you would reject at first sight, just 1 millisecond short of sight-unseen. and according...

hey brak, you make a fine but interesting distinction and i agree. i guess it would be the equivalent of not expecting to have a bag of money hit you on your trip to the bank but if it happens, you're kinda glad! so i guess in every way, you have to be perceived to be as much of a windfall...

haha, actually, the proper technique is dealt with in the first james bond book by ian fleming - casino royale (i'm reading it now cuz of i'm getting caught up in the hype for the new movie... i'm a real hypewh0re).... anyhoo: "he had to plan the attendant roles of mathis, leiter, and the...

you should never have to ask "what's going on with this woman?" you always always always simply ask her out. why torture yourself when one question nets you the answer? seriously, this is one of the biggest things i've learned from the pickup community. now the question of workplace rules...

good frickin goodness, yeah, negging on something as personal as weight is to a girl is ludicrous. your friend is exercising ridiculous judgment by going down that road and it was a mistake for you to follow. literally blind leading blind. a lot of the cheerleaders for negging really really...

i've tried several approaches at book stores (borders, barnes and nobles).... none of them worked out. check out the body language of most of the chicks there... they are NOT looking to meet anyone. they hardly look up. especially at the cafe section. it's not really the bytch shield either...

well, it might be the opinion of the "average girl" but i have heard that opinion too... that many girls don't like guys who are like arnold.... they are more inclined to dig the brad pitt, keanu, gq kinda physique - sleek and tall and looking good in clothes rather than bulked up looking best...

raikojo17, i sense a lot of bitterness. are you bitter? social proof alas makes a difference to women (especially women) because it shows how important you are in a society... the more important - read: powerful you are, the more attractive you are - THIS IS WHAT IS ATTRACTIVE IN MEN. what...

i really like this sentiment and it is the way that i've always approached this place. i come here and post and read almost as a way of "getting out" and not just stewing in my own frustration and madness. talking about your problems and engaging in the problems of others is valuable. it's...

men's health survey says that the muscles chicks are impressed by are (in order): 1. arms 2. pecs 3. abs ------------------------------------- hanging leg lifts are really good for lower abs but form is really important i'm realizing... and gotta go slow. ball crunch is TOO EASY if you're...

attractive women are not funny because they don't need to be. on the other hand, you will find that there are a lot of UNATTRACTIVE women with a pretty good sense of humor. this is along the same lines as the funny fat guy. look at comedians too - most of them are not the "alphas" of...

thanks cod3r. good tips. but i think wskbb's experience will be the more representative situation.... honestly, i haven't hit the club scene alone but even bars can be tough. i've decided the best way is to go to bars that feature live music. low pressure and you actually have an excuse to...

actually, there's something else going on here. you can be quiet and comfortable and not contribute to the conversation WITHOUT becoming alienated. this is not something that must necessarily happen. in fact, not contributing and being comfortable in this way can be interpreted as a sign of...

he says bad for "us" but he was never a part of "us"... did he just drop by to say we shouldn't exist? delta

oh, and a thing about insecurity from personal experience- it is when your life rubs up against the evaluation of others. it should be a TRANSITIONAL STATE. you either decide that the other party is wrong and you become secure in yourself. or.... you learn that the other party is actually...

you say "the only thing"... but dude, that's pretty much what insecurity is. it doesn't matter here the fact that you're bolding the word "them".... that is clear and by definition - you are uncomfortable with how other people (in this case, girls) see you. you are insecure about your job...