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you first lost. so what's the deal? she can't kiss or give head while being in a wheelchair? seriously - what is her deal? why does she have to be in marathon shape to begin a relationship? like i said, sounds scammy. WHAT. IS. HER. DEAL. ? delta

hey, if you're still a virgin and have options, and especially if you're not in a chemically driven panic to fvck and fvck right the fvck now - there's no hurry you know. i don't see anything wrong in waiting for the "right one"... especially if you're not seeing it every time you close your...

thanks fellows. i think vorbis and mogizide got the gist of my question the best... vorb nailed what's basically in my head. mog, interesting about the anti-scarcasm thing.... that's interesting. i think the behavior that really stands out to me when a guy is flirting is smiling obscenely...

actually, i want a well articulated description of what the precise behavior is. it's one of those things that's very clear when you see it but i'm having a difficult time putting it precisely into words... and you know what they say, if you can't say it, you don't know it. it's difficult...

???? what's her deal. you don't have to have acrobatic sex yet but why wait until she's fully healed to have a boyfriend? what's wrong with kissing, making out? etc? sounds like a scam... she wants you to hang around while on the mend and possibly sell you ginsu knives. delta

well, the roman poet OVID (in his excellent [and possibly first ever written] pickup manual collection) recommends avoiding two things: 1. leisure 2. solitude so basically, stay busy, don't opt out of gatherings and getting together with friends. i used to think that being alone and being...

as for withdrawing - it might be like training a dog, if there is not a clear and IMMEDIATE cause/effect between deed and punishment, the point might be lost. howabout simply COUNTERING her when it is reasonable to do so? her: no, i don't want to do that. let's do this. you: no. we...

i always thought they should have called it "NIAGRA".... delta

imo, this is a really GOOD question. i used to have not necessarily a crewcut but a very short spiky one with buzzcut on sides and back. kinda punky/young. easy to get and easy to do and go. but i just get the feeling that that's not a look that mainstream, non subculture women really like...

thank you one and all. all your advice and encouragement is truly a comfort to me. i have much to say in response and some epiphanies that i've been waking up with (i guess my subconscious has been mulling over what she said and trying to make sense of it)... been writing furiously all day...

it depends on the guy too.... for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease. for other guys, it's like pulling teeth. for me, it's like pulling teeth. delta

t!ts.... i'm all about t!ts... nice t!ts will cover a multitude of sins (i.e. imperfections) for me. but if a chick has a bunch of other nice traits but no t!ts, she's completely useless to me. twice as useless. my greatest fear is ending up with a chick without nice t!ts.... delta

ummm.... could be that your ex is hotter than the chicks you've been getting? that might be it.... if you're pulling down 7s or 8s but your ex was a 9.5, it might be hard to let go of that? if that's the case, you just have to keep working it. i've noticed in the past that after a certain...

haha.... just read something about this in a men's mag (gq? men's health?)... anyway, they (women interviewees) were saying how pathetic it was and how the act emphasizes (not diminishes) the desperation the man is feeling. delta

hmmm, i guess another reason NOT to find out is because it may not say anything beyond the preferences of a specific girl (though it may represent a specific KIND of girl)... and it could be misleadingly disheartening if you take it as a universal requirement.... meh... maybe it is? i mean...

nobody says you have to have sex. must it be a conflicted thing? if you WANT (on balance) to have sex, you do. if you DON'T (on balance) want to have sex, you don't. but just because you come down on the side of refraining doesn't make others juvenile though. on par of a sated man...

hey rs, i think it comes down to exactly why you're not closing the deal. is it fear? could it be a sublimated "shame response"? thinking perhaps that it is ignoble? but before i get the answers to that, maybe what would work for me (if i had that problem... i don't i'd nail everything i...

rs, thanks. that's actually a really good reason... i guess the reverse for a guy would be something like saying to the girl "you're not pretty enough for me to want to settle with" or something soul-shatteringly horrible like that. argh. that's the really ghastly thing about relationships i...

so if a girl breaks up with you... do you think it is healthy to find out why? i can't decide what is better... if you find out, and it is valid, it may devastate you but it can give you something to work on. but it can also be invalid and just end up devastating you. is it better to...

also - fake it till you make it.... it really can work. i'm still working on it. delta