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it could also be that you are being INAPPROPRIATE. if the vibe of the gathering is casual and you are dressed to the 9s, that is actually a social faux pas... on par with being UNDERDRESSED (although when in doubt, it is better to be slightly overdressed, it IS offensive if you are WILDLY...

the thing about 3 lines of email and no more is GOLD. email is HORRIBLE and can just ruin things because it is a HARD RECORD of what you said when you were pissed. and if she doesn't erase it, she will always have that against you. especially when it's negative, phone or in person...

lionone, what you say is fine and good. but it's NOT WHAT SHE SAID. you guys are bending over backwards trying to make her mean something that she simply does not say! stop reading into it. she is simply wrong. she said what she said clearly. and she is wrong. what's so hard about that...

i don't write this to discount what you say but just a small comment regarding your age. age is just a number. good and fine. but it DOES matter. there are STAGES in life and certain opportunities are not perpetually available. in fact, for youths, opportunities OPEN UP as they add another...

good questions. i encounter the same things (almost to a T) myself. for me, it's getting to the point where i think cold approaches simply don't work for me or djs are perpetuating a myth or they're all in europe. delta

no problemo on construing my socio-economic status as you did.... i wrote in such a way so that i am conveying that i am inadequate financially... but i am comparing myself to the fabulously wealthy guys match.com girls are looking for. i do alright. i do computer graphics. saved up a good...

cr, you represent the OTHER side... the side that values travel - at least in terms of getting out of california. comfort=safety=average=boring.... right. but that's 90% of everybody. and if you took that equation to the logical extreme, you'd be spending every night of your life hanging...

docs, the point he was making is that if you get your "sh1t" together (other aspects of your life, other skills) then chicks will just fall into place. that's what i object to. and you agree. i bring up bill gates as an example of someone who has his sh1t together but is still an afc...

also, in terms of wealth and travel - for women i think, it is their FANTASY. just as it would be an ultra turn off for a woman to tell me that she's very plain under the makeup, she wears a push up bra and hates sex, i think that being upfront about not being impressed with travel puts a wet...

hey serialized, thanks much. your response is surprisingly benevolent (for sosuave.com) and helpful. i'm not sure i agree that i have low self esteem. i think i have a pretty good handle on what i am. but my sentiment is expressed in relation to what i'm reading in the personals. a girl...

this is why posts like this completely miss the point on why boards like this exist: - BILL GATES IS AN AFC. the wealthiest man in the world is an afc. you can "be all you can be" and still strike out miserably with women. afcs can have more money than you, have more friends, maybe even be...

rs, definitely learn to make your moves without alcohol... crutches are ok until you need them and can't have them. also, i don't get what she would have to be embarassed about.... can you illuminate? delta

fvck you bvbidd. delta

yikes.... actually, ball IS in her court. she's not calling. this isn't actually too complicated. if she wanted to call she'd call. sure, it could be all kinds of things but even if she was sick or whatever, if she wanted to pursue, she would call. it doesn't sound like SHE'S nervous...