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what the heck does his being gay have anything to do with the problem? he's just a social retard that wants to come along on your dates for some bizarre reason. his being gay has nothing to do with it. tell him to fvck off for the evening and stop being such a needy bytch. delta

haha... oh demon... i am soooo devastated. my mighty heart... she is breaking. delta

actually, why do you think that movie stars CAN'T make an LTR work- because they have too many options. because they really CAN get sex often and regularly without LTRs. contrary to what was written, this is NOT the case with most people. especially as people begin to age, their options...

yup, i've done about half a dozen approaches in bookstores. one of the biggest things that lead me to think they have blinders on is the look of SURPRISE that anyone has actually invaded their personal space. i'm not sneaking up on them, they see me, i see them, i go over and open my mouth and...

to fvck. biological imperative. if marriage didn't involve sex, honestly, who in the world would get married? who in the world would bother to date? heck, if i didn't want to fvck so bad, i could concentrate on important things like getting a ps3 for fvck's sake! for me, if it came down to...

what nonsense? there ARE hard and fast rules - in all kinds of situations in all kinds of disciplines. and if you read what i had to say about WHY you don't say such things in the previous post, it's pretty obvious that the tactic is well nigh indefensible. within the context of what i was...

dang, too bad the thread subscription thing doesn't work better. i didn't realize there were more responses here! thanks fellows for the comfort and the advice. there's some great stuff in there that i'm actually doing now and your understanding and condolences are indeed a comfort so thank...

definitely show. never say. "i like you"... ridiculous. also, if things are so murky on the date, it seems like either the date was agreed upon under dubious pretenses (just friends) or there is absolutely no sexuality being acknowledged. so i guess that was the question then? kino, eye...

haha. alright polyanna - hope your outcomes are rosy enough to merit such sentiment. delta

it seems like original post is on the money. you're literally "sleeping with the enemy". the enjoyment that you get out of it is fvcking. but the head games and games in general need to continue. the moment you drop your guard is the moment things start falling apart. they say that movies...

that's what i mean though- what kind of girl do you find at a book store? i would say that the fact that they are in a book store actually says precious little about them. i guess they're not illiterate or blind. but that's about it. not necessarily intellectual, not necessarily into...

that's fine. "have dinner with me tonight." "want to have a drink with me tomorrow?" "want to go watch casino royale with me?" "do you want to hang out this weekend? i was planning on blah blah blah and i'd love it if you'd join me." i'm convinced it doesn't actually matter that much what...

hey brak, thanks for the detailed response. no offense taken but i actually am not "condemning" them in any real way. but we were talking about using "commonality" to gain rapport or even facilitate the approach. i'm pointing out that i find very little commonality from what they end up...

same thing bab, if you ASK HER OUT ONE ON ONE, your point is made. you say "there's no point because..." blah blah... THERE IS A POINT! you are revealing your intentions and putting yourself out there. answer is the same, ASK HER OUT. delta

complete afc question. you NEVER EXPLICITLY TELL THEM YOU LIKE THEM. this is THE afc mistake as is the attitude that brings it into being - that somehow, the important thing is not how she feels about you but that for some reason, your feelings should carry some kind of significance (IT DOES...

right, that's the pattern - you start out as a wide-eyed optimist and genuinely kind and caring etc etc etc. and you don't get what you want. so you go the other way. ---------------------------------------- thing to realize about that pattern though is that "selflessness" and care that you...

ego is good. self aware. willful. acting according to desire. but there's a fine line between self centered (which is arguably good because it is honest) and being self absorbed which is simply gauche. simple etiquette might be enough for you to get the difference. delta

howdy, this is not meant to be an attack. but it seems like everything that you hate about others, you EXHIBIT IN YOURSELF - in YOUR attitude. self involved, etc. do you see this? now, a way forward if you're a misanthrope, and it sounds like you are, is to seek to GENUINELY LOVE OTHERS and...

what's a good opener? situational is basically the only thing i ever do. the "survey" kinda stuff seems too artificial and hokey to me. actually, i think what i was getting at was that "pickup" in the day is like dancing in the funeral... unexpected and inappropriate. i don't really believe...

haha, that's great AFC = AFC average frustrated chump = a fat chick male version = female version very apt and telling. delta