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why false? women's value as women is based on their looks. that is an essential part of femininity. a sosuave for women would be little else than - hit the fvcking gym and get hot. that's all that matters. men will value you and seek you out for that. just as there are essential traits of...

oh and OBSERVATION: more than anything, i think women want their men to look APPROPRIATE. that they BELONG wherever it is they find themselves. being awkward or not fitting in is the pariah of every woman. it is their ultimate horror and they cannot possibly tolerate the embarassment of a...

huh? so it sounds gay but americans are pigs and ... whuh? huh? what're you trying to say? ooo, express men is great too... nice sport coats there too. i don't know what america you live in but americans aren't rolling in it... consumer confidence is not relatively high and this holiday...

weight watchers! hot chicks at fat chick prices! delta

some will say that there is no typical appearance for a dj. that there can be bean pole djs right next to obese djs and all of them wearing wranglers and wife beaters. such things are possible. it is also possible that if you press your hand against a table long enough, it will actually go...

see, this is why this question is so apt - it's not just about walking into the bar. that's easy. but WHAT WILL YOU DO while you are there and there is no band there? you can have a seat at the bar and order a drink but you have no "home base" of friends that you can return to after every...

wrong. THE TRUTH: some hobbies and interests attract women. other interests REPEL them. if you're passionate about star trek, that will never make you attractive to women who grow hair in the proper places and are under two bills. and if you're NOT into working out, wearing nice...

WHAT? i don't know who the other guys are but ted bundy was a momma's boy who was the epitome of the weird guy living next door! alpha male?! wtf?! original post may be onto something but it probably involves other things... it's probably not primarily afcness but abuse that causes them to...

i added some stuff in my previous post to clarify. but basically, as i said, you may genuinely like stuff that will scuttle you with chicks and you may genuinely DISLIKE things that would help you. for me, the example of the second is building a strong muscular body, dressing well and caring...

no no no no no. you two totally miss the point of this board and the dj community. all of us here come to ask "is this attractive" or "do women like this". most of us are here because we've spent years doing WHAT WE GENUINELY IN OUR HEART OF HEARTS LOVE - which is dungeons and dragons and...

this is a really good distinction. brilliant. the explanation is weak but the concept is so strong that articulating it was enough. showing interest means you are the operator. you're coming from a place of strength. showing feelings is the equivalent of begging. you're saying "this is me...

mrruckus, actually, you're talking about the monotheistic religions.... most of the others are a bit more laid back. also, i'm not talking about fundamentalism or strict adherence to doctrine. but in general, religions teach you to love others and look out for the good of others ahead of your...

don' take it so hard. it might have been a bonafide, no holds barred, unqualified failure. but big deal. everybody blows it and everybody blows it pretty often. everyone who succeeds has a long trail of failure behind them. so don't sweat it. it's only bad if it makes you stop. keep...

james bond is lucky because his job requires travel. if you have such a job, the travel is a huuuuuge fringe benefit. yes. travel makes you more attractive. look at any online matchmaking service, women, especially hot women, place that waaaaay up on their list of turn ons. in my mind, it...

going to a bar with a band playing is an awesome way to try to get out and be social by yourself. if nothing else, you're there for the band. it works with jazz but personally, i don't like jazz that much and i feel self conscious cuz i'm not enjoying it. if you have a local joint that hosts...

we should have some compassion. as a longtime afc, i could have been the male version of that. speaking from personal experience, can you imagine the bitterness, envy and hatred for someone who has been ostracized from life and romance and who has been made to suffer while others seemingly...

"but i ignored her and kept on talking" and "gotta work a little more on my persistence and closing ability"? ummmm... is persistence the KEY THING here? is the idea that you keep going whether she is interested or not? cuz i've always thought that this is not the goal. delta

it sounds good... but gimmicky... you can't really do this more than once can you? otherwise, you become "the guy with the dating for dummies book". delta

bab, you have to deal with reality. you want things to be a certain way. but think about it this way and all will become clear: there are FAT AND UGLY GIRLS OUT THERE who really wished that men would look past their exterior. they know they are "beautiful on the inside" and why does...

it wasn't because of this site strictly but i've improved quite a bit after i started dj training. before, i was such an afc i didn't even know what you were supposed to do or say or whatever. i've had so many opportunities in the past where it seemed like a girl was interested but i was...