What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Perfect answer.You determine how you do.librito said:mayfly.........you are overanalizing it...if you have confidence in yourself you can go anywhere alone and still feel good about yourself.
who cares what they think about you, you are the prize.
Mayfly said:Is the best idea to go in and start socializing right away or just walk around the place a little bit, make some eye contact, and then go at it? Plus girls are never alone at bars, they are always in groups. Then should I approach the group?
Walk straight up to a HB, and start gaming her.Mayfly said:Is the best idea to go in and start socializing right away or just walk around the place a little bit, make some eye contact, and then go at it? Plus girls are never alone at bars, they are always in groups. Then should I approach the group?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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