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a hot girl is unfortunately a human being. a human being with desires and plans and ambitions of her own. if you cannot fulfill those dreams for her (though you might imagine she would fulfill yours), your world will be a living hell. where you will ever only feel bad about yourself, she will...

interesting but definitely not the experience of all non alphas.... most of us aren't really "non alpha" EXCEPT with women... we are employable (geeks who are tremendously omega in many ways are highly sought after for their various technical, intellectual, mathematical skills) and are pretty...

yeah, you're right. definitely. "plenty" attracts. "poverty" repels. but indeed this has become a pretty insurmountable catch22 for me and i don't know how one is supposed to project fullness when they are starving to death. hence, my posts about how legalized prostitution would...

oh. i thought you were commenting on the "god fails us" part... y'never know on the internet... lots of fanatics. i think the word "disgraceful" colored it that way... if you'd have said "mean", i woulda got it. but my bad. ummm... but it could be a shade of truth though... however crudely...

don't judge (a man unless you've walked in his shoes). i would imagine a great many of us here harbor such sentiments... whether now or at one time. delta

hey das, i get the same thing too. over the last few years, i've put a lot of work into my body (used to be skinny computer geek... now i work out 3 times a week, can bench my body weight and i'm fairly ripped now... not all that buff but ripped), dress better, pay attention to grooming and...

to be a completist, robert green - laws of seduction, 49 laws of power mandatory reading. also, this is a common idea in the dj forums... the idea of building value is a fundamental concept. i disagree that failure to appeal to their self interest is desperate or needy. it comes off as...

i've been thinking similar thoughts. there are a lot of ideas in "SELF HELP" that are FALSE and are LIES. they are USEFUL LIES. it is better sometimes to see unclearly. there is a good article in psychology today this month that talks about similar things. it may not be true but if it...

actually, this is a very interesting topic. i am in very good shape and dress pretty well but i hardly ever get a look. but i've been out with friends and now i'm noticing it... you can really tell when other girls check a guy out. i can imagine making eye contact, smiling and opening would...

sigh... i encounter this kind of thing soooooooooo much on these boards these days. the "do what you want", "it doesn't matter" approach..... see, problem with this approach is that many guys actually LIKE wearing their yu-gi-oh tshirts, khaki shorts and socks with birkenstocks. you are not...

NOT hard to tell! rolexes, omegas, etc. are all MECHANICAL watches - they are not BATTERY POWERED (quartz). and the way that you can tell is that the SECOND HAND makes many little movements to get to the next second. quartz watches leap from second to second. imo, it's waaaaay more cheesy to...

pap, why are YOU so hellbent on trying to defend the notion? it is condemned because most guys who are "nice" can't do it without being pvssies. they are not REALLY being nice. they are rolling over and pissing on their bellies showing other men they are not a threat and begging women for a...

you may not get to the fvck on the first date but you're escalating towards it... regardless of where you end up, you're moving it forward. not just sitting there and seeing what happens. the idea is PROGRESS. and if you're working on that progress, you're less nervous because you are working...

what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY. they also tend to be physically masculine which would make them dominant by default in the animal world. delta

feh, i agree with tally. this IS a legit topic. one of the ways in which we can build confidence and make a hot chick seem not so unattainable is by preying on the weak and lame. hey, that's what happens in nature. so find hot chicks that are damaged enough and they end up not being so hard...

it helps to psych yourself up like this though. because you will not be intimidated by what is inferior to you. even if she is on your level or ABOVE, do not acknowledge this mentally. you lie to yourself. just a like a soldier lies to himself that he's not going to get hurt and that...

PROCEDURE would help. as well as HAVING A PLAN. simply knowing WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING ON THE DATE would alleviate a great deal of your nervousness. knowing WHAT TO DO and FAMILIARITY with the playfield will help you feel more calm. so have a playbook and checklist - just like a pilot...

right. the AVERAGE guy. that's most. in high school, it's the jocks vs. everybody else. not a large percentage. the meat heads represent the masculine epitome of manhood and they reap the rewards. delta

maybe that's what you gotta say to yourself but #3 seems insane. maybe that's an affirmation your need to self talk in order to operate but it seems false. as is the statement of hot chicks sitting at home alone twiddling their thumbs. that is our (men's) fantasies - just like hot chicks who...

marlboro man is one thing but the social stigma of being alone as in "why is he alone? doesn't he have any friends? what is so wrong with him that he has to be alone?" it seems to me that that is how a woman's mind works. this is why we have such emphasis on social proof. not saying it...