Delta said:
maybe that's what you gotta say to yourself but #3 seems insane. maybe that's an affirmation your need to self talk in order to operate but it seems false.
as is the statement of hot chicks sitting at home alone twiddling their thumbs.
that is our (men's) fantasies - just like hot chicks who don't know their hot. just like elves - they don't freakin' exist.
do a survey. go out and ask a bunch of hot chicks if they have boyfriends. i would wager that the ones that do VASTLY outnumber those who don't.
i mean WHY BE ALONE? they have any number of guys to bounce off of if they're hot. i wouldn't want to be alone if i could help it.
delta
Seriously. I will say I get the "I have a boyfriend" excuse from hotchick CAs as much as anybody else.
But it just so happens I'm very tight with a very, very popular HB 9. This girl has the inside to every bar and club in town. As well as knowing almost every HB 8+ within a 50 mile radius. I'm not even joking.
This is where I get my data from. She herself, though she has a constant 20+ guys chasing her, hasn't had a real boyfriend in 5 years. She wants one. She just can't find a good man.
Same goes for almost all the HB's in her network. I would say that out of any group of 5, 3 wouldn't have BFs or would be open to getting a better man. And 9/10 of the hb 7- would be open to finding a better man (if they have one)
This used to boggle my mind until I began to understand the social dynamics of hot girls (and I'm talking younger 20-25 year olds. Older may be diff.) And more importantly understand the nature of most guys who hang around party HBs.
You've got to understand that HB's live in a very superficial world. This includes the men they are surrounded by. And while most of the guys "pursuing" the HB's look fly and DJish, trust me, they are not. Sure, a few walk the walk but HB don't want no playa. And on top of that, NOTHING set's these guys a part from one another.
An HB has 20 clones after her and guess what? She's going to put everyone in the friendZone with a possible FB or maybe armcandy untill a real man comes along.
I've seen it so many times that I can say THIS IS HOW IT WORKS.
Your right though, she isn't at home twiddling her thumbs.