This is why understanding your environment is also important, it can completely throw off your game. Parties aren't the easiest places to start off sarging. Ease into sarging at parties after you become confident in other venues.greenlake said:
Hey, that sounds funny, I'm going to try that next time I'm at B&N.godsgifttowomen said:
Just a suggestion, don't use it on a woman that's reading a self help book.~attrACTION~ said:
Here's a suggestion for you, find some places where you feel comfortable then look around. See the women around you? Look at them, approach them, talk to them. They will probably have more in common with you than you realize.greenlake said:
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Delta said:
Been approaching in Barnes and Noble, I have had some decent experiences but overall quite disappointing. The quality and quantity of approaches has depended on the city I am in.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Comment something like "Oh...don't tell me you are one of THOSE women!" as you take a look at what book she is looking at or what section she is in, and then have something silly to say about women who like that type of stuff, like "I know someone who likes that kind of stuff...she has 10 cats and talks to her plants"
I do mostly situational openers but have been doing daygame for ~10 years as I read Roosh's "Day Bang" soon after it came out in 2011. "Day Bang" was the foundation for all my approaches. Bookstores were covered less in "Day Bang" than coffee shops, but many bookstores have coffee shops in them.
This line intrigues me, but I don't want to frame an interaction around brother-sister dynamic. I need her to see me as a sexual being immediately.
I lumped these two quotes together because they oppose each other. Yes, a lot of women at bookstores seem like they have blinders on. A good portion of these women likely have boyfriends or husbands already. The regional chain bookstore location I've been to is in a neighborhood that is mainly unmarried people, so it'd be more boyfriends than husbands. I wonder if unattached women in bookstores have blinders on.
You are 26, so I assume you've been targeting younger women in bookstores. I didn't start non-bar approaching until I was nearly 30. Most of my non-bar approaching has occurred in my 30s, and targeting women 25-35. I've not seen a lot of attractive 25-35 year old women in bookstores when I've tried bookstore approaching. That's why the incident this past weekend stood out for me. I didn't bookstore approach for years simply because I saw few to no viable approaches in them.
BTW on a sidenote, I have been grocery shop approaching at Kroger's whole foods and Trader Joe's in the Nashville area after work while doing groceries, for two weeks. So far no leads, with all the cameras in shops did you ever feel like you're being watched therefore messing up your game?
I've done more grocery store approaching over the years than bookstore approaching and I never once felt that way about approaching in grocery stores.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
