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That "something's missing..." is usually an intuitive read and shouldn't be ignored. The "she is perfect (or nearly so) and such a great match and..." sounds like the other side of you trying to justify it all---and under these terms it is undeniably justified, too. But that "something's...

It sounds like you really didn't think this thru, did you? Leave her be. You're experiencing what happens when you get next'd--a sense of rejection, loss, of suddenly being the needy one... She all of a sudden turned the tables and demonstrated she has more value than you, and now you...

There isn't a good response to it. You shouldn't be doing that shyt in the first place. This is a fundamental error, as evidenced by all the blow-offs and deflections you get when using this.

NBP---take English 101 over again and pay attention when they bring up the section on paragraphs. Please.

I dunno...what jumped out at me was how someone had trouble with terms here but used them anyway, which is an experience I have. I came here and--then and now--I ape the words "DJ" and, to a lesser extent "AFC". These are short-hand terms and are used as such. I don't have to spend time...

Do you think the focus on a detail like that will make or break it? Or--not make or break it--which is better? In the broader picture, see and use affirmations as a jump-start for what you want to develop (or situations when you need it)--as one among a number of self-improvement skills...

Are you considering this for LTR or not? If not--play, have fun! LTR is never really an issue. If LTR or your general 'serious relationship' considerations are in play, then re-think. Yes, it could work. I've seen it. But more often that that, I've seen guys with mommy issues or...

Actually, you can't really tell (physically, that is, in this day and age--if she's ever used a tampon, you won't have any evidence of virginity...) That said, I seriously doubt she's lying. Sure, she's being a little coy and testing him a bit, and using it for effect, which means she's can...

Not all of it. What I did get was--to paraphrase here: Go here: http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php Go here: http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php Go here: http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php and then go here: http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php Oh, and hang around the...

Not really. If you're doing well, the LJBF card is not really needed and shouldn't be used. If you sense she's moving you into that slot already and/or is about to say it to you, you use this card pre-emptively. Backfire? Hardly. You have nothing to lose. You're being LJBF'd as it is...

She's already cheating emotionally and physically (did anyone say petting zoo?) Her innocence is one massive, well played and bullet-proof ASD defence. ASD and then some... The innocence is probably what she had to wrap daddy and grandpa around her finger learned from the ages of 1 thru...

You think she won't buy the ol' "cell phone lost connection" excuse---like, it's 2003 and who ever heard of a cell phone with poor connection? Seriously, you're too sensitive and AFC-ish here. If she says "why'd you hang up on me?"--you reply "whaddya mean? You're phone cut out." ---...

Date others. Live your life, enjoy it---see if he wants to keep up. He may only be a part-time lover or with you while he works out issues. Be ready to move on (or he'll move on) at any time--which is to say, anything with him will only be for the moment.

<sigh> Ok, a couple things Davie-J... I repeat: there is no confusion unless it's intentional. There is confusion, she intends that and--surprise (really, not)--you just don't get it, you don't understand it, you... ...you were probably listening to what she's saying and not paying...

Do girls like boring (or bored) guys? Why would guys like boring (or bored) girls? Work that one out without making excuses for her.

If she wanted it, it would've happened by now. The comparison with the ease of doing it with the ex shows you're on the right track here. At some point you will have to figure out or accept that this thing isn't happening. Do it now. Some guys marry girls like this and don't figure it...

<door opens> Red sticks his head in and angrily shouts.. "Read this!" http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32417 and slams the door again.

Only serious responses allowed here--??? Fvck... <sound of tramping feet> <door slam!>

Re: sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly, Look over the situation and what you know of her again. My guess is that you will find someone who gets thru life by getting people to do favors for her or by getting the other person to take on her problems...

How was the icebytch affected by this (she was there, no?)--?