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I can't figure out RedBlue's post. He doesn't like Pook's last post. Ok, I got that (I did sorta Ok on Reading Comp 102 in HS!) Can anyone coherently explain why? Is this an ESL thing a grammar thing or a drug thing? Dude--can you re-phrase?

I had witty comments on others, but not really here. Maybe I can't offer much, but---flirt with one and you're probably flirting with both since they probably both want the same thing and are used to sharing. And they're probably more comfortable together than apart. Seriously---do what you...

Whaddya mean slim pickings in the N. Mich? UP? I was there 25 years ago skiing and couldn't believe the stunning amount of blondes--unreal, these--every which way I turned. I'm in CA now--plenty of blondes (most are bottle blondes, though...not the 110% all natural blondes like we had...

ROTFLMAO! You got problems dude! Wish it was me.

You're probably not going to get jack-shyt help to a post like this. It's too general. How can anyone reply with anything helpful with a complete lack of context here? No detail. Nothing. How do I cool down? We argue it out. She's intelligent. She has a reason for her position. I have...

A "Dear John" letter is a time-honored tradition.

They're used to sharing... :D They're used to wanting the same things, too. :D They probably feel more like "themself" together than apart. Act accordingly. :D

LJBF: "Let's Just Be Friends", which is a kiss of death delivered by women to AFC (and that is "Average Frustrated Chump", a.k.a. "wuss" or "nice guy" (who no woman even wants to give a mercy fvck to..), or --- you get the idea.) Men can do the same to women. Think of the 4.0 chick that...

There's a problem here? Ok, there is, but it's not with the guys copying you. It's you. Those guys are doing the right thing--they don't have game, they recognize (we have to take your word on this) you do and they emulate it. They do it badly at first. It's called aping your behavior...

At first I thought you were being used for getting into the clubs. Then I thought she has a developing problem with alcohol. These may be true. She may want you as a clubbing friend and keeping it within those limits while you're looking for something that is heavier and more serious...

LJBF! Accept that fact first. Right now you're focusing on what she said. Focus on the fact that you were LJBF'd. After that, you can work back and see that whatever she said---and she could've said anything---is all aimed at LJBFing you. It doesn't matter what it was she said, it's...

fvcking-A, dude ... (my phrase for respect btw) this has been a deal breaker for me for the last decade or so where I won't even approach a girl unless I think they are interesting upstairs (Ok, I will, actually...to get a better look). Usually I toss a joke their way (sarcasm mixed with...

Good thread... Nice posting Coin. Good back-n-forth going, too, which covered most of what jumped out at me. What didn't get underlined I wish to note: ____________ She had legitimate excuses for the next 4 weeks. Coin objectively assessed what these excuses were and tried to weigh what...

DO NOT go off on her. Don't be a retard. (yeah, I meant that...) TDK is right. So is HIPNOTQ (love his posts, btw..), but--on balance--I'm thinking this isn't the place where next-ing her is premature. If you read her signs clearly early enough, you would have already done it, IMO...

I know about that business personality/private personality dichotomy. Amazing how much discrepancy there is and it's all in the same person! So you've developed a confident, take-charge "I know this" personality while at work but don't have that in the club? Somehow you need to build up the...

Don't get back with them. Move on. Be business-like about it because, at that point, it is business (as in--you see things very clearly and are not being jerked around by AFC wishfulness..) Although I have done that post-breakup fvckbuddy thing for a time, but that, again, was just...

You can't stop someone from talking (leaving aside violence or court orders...) and I sense that you know better than trying to force it. You CAN do some subtle verbal judo on her. When someone mentions what she said, just smile or laugh a little and say "is she spreading shyt again? I...

You can CHOOSE when you want to interact. Just because the phone rings doesn't mean you are obligated to pick it up. If you don't feel like talking, don't pick it up. If you're not at your best or reasonably so, don't pick it up. And don't run games on yourself "we just got out of a club...

Somehow I really don't like this post. Ok--sure--people who are charismatic or establish rapport will often acknowledge and "make" people around them feel good, and people will like them as a result. So there is validity to this question. But what I hear here is something of a technique...

Just thinking about Darwin and the evolution of species... What young people wear and how they behave (clothes, makeup, going out, getting loud, etc....) is usually a bit overt, which makes us older types look quiet by comparison. What the youngsters are doing from the age of 12+ is sexual...