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This should be in Tips, no? This sounds like the NLP thing of using (a) trigger(s) for changing one's state. Usually they do it with some manner of a physical gesture, but using music, dressing well, whatever--fall within this concept too. Useful stuff...

I won't say that liquor brings out the truth, but if you are a real DJ sober, you should pretty much remain so drunk, too. Some random thoughts: Completely ignore the one-itis' birthday. Don't even mention it a week later. Birthdays are meaningless, btw, only chicks, children and AFCs...

I'm not exactly seeing why you are wanting to stay with her. Please explain. She's hot--but you're confident you can replace her with another HB9.0, yes? If "hotness" is really the deciding factor here---then do so: replace her. You won't change her around. It's a nice challenge, but...

Does "puppy go fetch" mean anything? It wasn't favorable. Perhaps you can convert by hooking up with the girl you got the number from and let the others know. And then get more numbers,... Why weren't they challenged to doing something equally daring? You had no come-back here (that I...

Sounds like you're in jerk mode. That'll work--chicks fall for it. Going from AFC to Jerk is probably an "adjustment" or "correction", say, which at some point in the future will swing back towards the middle somewhere when you've mined the jerk-mode enough and learned all you need to learn...

Kwah---how's this for narrow? He was a player, now he's not. She's a player. He's being played. He wants her, he can't have her. He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something. But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can...

Interesting comment---not sure which way to take it. For that matter, I've scanned over RedBlue's posts and I can't quite make out what his arguments are except in bits and pieces. I hear a lot of vagaries being bounced around in the air---which is really what is preventing me from getting a...

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You're looking for just an affair, no LTR--right? Would you be a home-wrecker? Sure--to a point. She'll find someone else to wreck the home with if it isn't you. Her "I've never felt this way before" or whatever she said is her ASD line--you are very replaceable here, you know... Make...

W&D---she caught you flat-footed on a test and you failed. You don't have to answer her question. Just look her dead in the eye, don't back down, be offended (as you should be) and say "what are you doing going thru my cell phone?" Don't let her take the conversation anywhere else and force...

There's nothing to talk about further. I mean, what would you talk about---??? Maybe you can negotiate her pants off. But what will really happen will be that she gets you begging for it and gets to hear how much you think it would be a good idea, it's ok, it's whatever---in short, how...

I've seen plenty of instances where women are vicious to uglier girls. They will not necessarily do it to their face. They will do it in conversation with each other behind her back. Does the word "catty" come to mind? They can be ruthless about her raw material--just her basic...

That's it??? No more dates. Move on IMO...her IL isn't there or she has issues--same result: move on now.

Iqqi and a few others had some very good points. You didn't say what age she was--that often figures into it. They can be uptight and ambivalent about sex for quite awhile--the younger, the more uptight (once they get past 30, though, YOU will need to strap on seat belts!!!) I heard only...

Pay attention to your pronouns here... What I got out of this is that a guy phoned your girl, and then somehow instantaneously transmorphed without sugery into a girl so that the girl could ask the girl if she was with you---or maybe a phone was passed off to a GF who then asked---or it was...

So ask her out tomorrow. Let her flake or break it off on them to go with you. Let them handle it (they won't...) BTW--they're not your friends...

Whoa...a lot of over-analyzing and rule-reading going on here. Slow down. Rules are guides only. These are yammered on as being more rigid or more flexible depending on the person. The more clueless and AFC the person, the more ridid the rule (because that's the only life-preserver of...

Why did you wuss out and apologize (I was only kidding!)--?? What were you doing with her on AIM (or IM--whatever)--?? You either didn't deliver it right or she has issues or she wasn't all that HB as you say.. Besides, you're listed as 17---is she that age or close? At that point...

Gotcha---them's corn-fed women up there--I know the type. They got thighs that can break you---don't use the wrong name at the wrong moment or you'll be crippled for life!