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I must be getting old, that shyt looks like my last eye exam...

I dunno, it sounded like you handled it well enough. You tried sending signals (most people would get), and then escalate without being a moron, and finally it took blatant word-play to make it obvious. My own thing is this: most people who are worth your time will know to read between the...

Can someone translate??? I think I got the gyst of the first 5 sentences I read--I think he converted, right?

Too late. It'll be a surprise, and it'll creep her out. You can only call if SHE gave you the number. (and no more talking about this to friends...) I smell one-itis in the air.

Pook had something on being afraid of your sexuality. I think you've strayed into this territory. Look it up-- Any way, are you willing to put this connection on the line? If no, be best of friends (and she'll think you're an a-sexual wanabe-man--buta great friend--or make a move and...

Fadero, I can see where both of you are right. She's right, and you're right. And I'll even allow that you're more right. Problem is, I read your stuff and you sound like a woman. Or you write with a woman's voice---over-justifications, emotionalism, reading into things, interpreting...

LJBF her via v-mail or e-mail. Just tell her not to worry since you two are just friends, but if this is causing her problems with her psycho-ex, you understand how it is. Sure, you flirted, but that was just fun. You guys are just friends and there's no real chemistry, but he wouldn't see...

Jin---fundamental (as in, FUNDAMENTAL) rule is that you never look at or talk about other women when with one. Ever. And if they say "you can tell me..." or "let's be honest and open about it..." or "I don't mind, do what you like..." you are being invited into a trap. Look at what they...

I dunno, if she really wanted it from you, she'd put the religious thing aside and get her forgiveness later. She's probably using it as a useful excuse to blow you off (and anyone else she's not really feeling it for) while using it to deepen the experience for the guy she does want ("in spite...

Friends smoke a lot of weed? Some of what you say sounds like that could be it. Other parts sound like they do the women's thing, which is to not hear what you actually say but to interpret what it means--and they do this so quickly and effortlessly that they don't hear what you say at all...

I know that "prove to myself" urge. Forget it. All you're doing is proving to yourself on some standard of worth that really doesn't prove anything. Deeper standard: go for what you want. If you don't want her, what's the point of proving something off her? What you really want is not...

Uh, cute stunt for kids. Yes, it can trap the girl or prove her to you. It's AFC--I can't say why, I just feel it. For me, though, the real thing is that you use this technique and never learn anything beyond slick tricks like this--as in, learning how to tell if she has character or not...

She used the word "nice". I also hate when they use the word "cute"--they mean something good by it, but I told them to stop using that 4 letter c-word or I'll start using my 4 letter c-word...

Not enough info provided. You want him to spend more time with you. Apparently he is busy doing other things. Such as...??? Or, perhaps he isn't busy doing other things and you get 2 out of 7 days. What is he doing in the meantime? Is it something of differing perceptions? He feels...

I know what you mean! These types tend to go for stuffed animals--I don't know if part of them got emotionally stuck as a 5 year old or what.

Look at it a little more clearly. You dated a week. Emphasis: DATED. You had no relationship. You had sex. You had dates. Maybe you even connected emotionally. But this wasn't a relationship. Don't build it up like it was a 3 month or 6 month or 3 year thing. Most guys here...

She's not interested. She said as much 3+ different ways. Don't go apologize. I'm giving no explanations on the above. Go read the bible and figure out why.

He's a little too close in analyzing the action and needs to take a few steps back to see what's up. If she isn't tweaked, she's a player. And if she isn't a player, she's high maintenance. I think it's a combo of all 3 in varying degrees. And, uh, that's 3 red flags of sorts, too. Some...

Actually, being geek got trendy a little while ago (all them billions, I think...) and, if you notice, like every model claims to have been ugly in junior high and made fun of, everyone else claims to really be a geek. Real geeks still can't get laid. Been laid in the last 3 years? You're...