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[KmZDon]

have you ever feel that your friends are stupid? or sometime your so-called best friend is turning their back on you or betraying in ways that he is not aware of?

sometime you ever have a feeling where you want to start a new social life? such as finding new friends and so on

what would you guys do? how do you make new friends?
I'm just too tired to explain the plain stupidity of people, generally speaking, you ask them to something, they always do it wrong, even a simple task such as bringing snapple drinks ("hey get me peach" and they get you lemon and you say "peach!" "oh I'm sorry, I thought you wanted lemon")
thanks

 

[KmZDon]

btw, right now I'm following a rule, law, from 48 laws and I'm trying avoid them like plague
I want them to miss me basically because they know I'm funny
anyway they setup this group and forgot/didn't put me in it, so I decided "hm.. something's wrong" and I told my dumb best friend to ASK them, if they forgot or they didn't want me

he instead of asking them, told them to put me up, that's plain stupid, perhap if you guys want to see the conversation, I can

now I'm pissed and I'm not coming to the family day which is tomorrow, it's the typical chinese stuff, I think aznknight or someone like that would know what I'm talking about

the usual "YO WELCOME TO OUR XANGA, faMIlY" and that aol stuff, the reason why I hang out with them is because I got noone else to hang out with that

unless I can find a friend that's calm and intellectual, I would LOVE to hang out with him just like I would with you guys (demon, mysno, cable and so on)(as long as he is tolerant enough and knows how to enjoy life) (sorry but I can't describe it, imagine jet li's character in The One) like that

soorry I'm feeling pissed

 

[TesuqueRed]

Friends smoke a lot of weed? Some of what you say sounds like that could be it.

Other parts sound like they do the women's thing, which is to not hear what you actually say but to interpret what it means--and they do this so quickly and effortlessly that they don't hear what you say at all. A further step (the part that SS got right) is that they'll interpret what you way as relating to them. Talk sexy and they'll interpet it as relating to them, etc.

As for your friends, if you're finding you're surrounded by dumbshyts, move. You're known by the company you keep.

I am surprised you're hurt by being excluded by people you despise or are close to despising. This means that they still matter to you.

Last---because you can't find people you want to hang with doesn't justify hanging with people you don't want to hang with just because they are your only option. It's a pyss-poor excuse and gets more costly in the long run. It means you're not doing enough to get what you want and you're not quite willing to pay what it takes to do it. At some point, you make a decision---do it or accept what you have.

Disatisfaction is building, a decision is being forced. I'm sure there's something in the I Ching directly related to this.

 

[KmZDon]

ok, thanks

I'll just don't give a ****, cause it seems that after my friend died,(my real friend, we've known each other since what, baby? our mother knew each other, he's my true friend) I just became a little bit quiet

the girls that I know, I'm not trying to DJ them, I just want to have fun, but I figured, they're selfish (Really selfish, they want us to pay for everything), so there is this family day today and I didn't go and didn't tell them and I plan on not seeing them for a long time too

I wonder how they would react

I'll study for my final city test, then I'll go to the library and find new friends there

 

[KmZDon]

AND!

and I'll try to find friends who don't type aol style

that's "weLcOMe tO oUr SItE"

and friends who don't degrade me in the public even if they're kidding