It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
=====================Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Kwah---how's this for narrow?
He was a player, now he's not.
She's a player. He's being played.
He wants her, he can't have her.
He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.
But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.
That's my read on it.
Look over the situation and what you know of her again. My guess is that you will find someone who gets thru life by getting people to do favors for her or by getting the other person to take on her problems as their problems. They may do it from the innocent angle, the victim angle, the you-might-have-a-shot-me angle, the show-me-what-you-can-do-bigboy angle, the... etc. 1000 variations, same game. Like poker...Originally posted by PETE379
... i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon...