Poor Nice Guy Done Wrong Again By Lifetime Friend
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Kwah
Master Don Juan
Well, uhm.... yeah. Someone want to narrow down the hell he's talking about? Does he want this girl or what? I got confused at the point where he didnt call her and she called 3 days later.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Kwah---how's this for narrow?
He was a player, now he's not.
She's a player. He's being played.
He wants her, he can't have her.
He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.
But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.
That's my read on it.
He was a player, now he's not.
She's a player. He's being played.
He wants her, he can't have her.
He can't accept that fact and will get played again if she needs something.
But right now she's gotten almost all of the value out of him that she can. She may keep in contact for practice.
That's my read on it.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly,
LOL Red, great interpretation, "keep in contact for practice" hehe i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon. T not getting anymore favors. the favor was already givin before her playing began.
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LOL Red, great interpretation, "keep in contact for practice" hehe i wouldnt be surprised if she dont need another favor soon. T not getting anymore favors. the favor was already givin before her playing began.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Re: sorry4 confusion, story probably not worth reading if it was written correctly,
Look over the situation and what you know of her again. My guess is that you will find someone who gets thru life by getting people to do favors for her or by getting the other person to take on her problems as their problems. They may do it from the innocent angle, the victim angle, the you-might-have-a-shot-me angle, the show-me-what-you-can-do-bigboy angle, the... etc. 1000 variations, same game. Like poker...