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If it's not happening, it's not happening. Recognize that when it happens and move on, cut your losses...

Why don't you stop the messaging? This is just a pseudo relationship, or a faux-relationship--you haven't even met!!! So what is it? Nothing, yet. Stop messaging--it's a mindfvck over something that isn't real. Evidence? You're here posting about someone you've never met. Not sure...

I agree with Clint in the main, but I think it means something. Usually I say when I like the presense or the personality of someone. There is something "sweet" worth commenting on. Smitten? No. Clint is dead on that it means nothing if you're looking for signs of that. Sweet is just a...

#1: What don't you understand about not doing this? _______________ #2: If jealousy is present, you do hide it if nothing else. What you really should do is deal with it. _______________ #3: She's dumping you. IMO, she really isn't your GF anymore, just in...

Quick advice guy--you're going thru the bible and other places for advice. When you find gems, copy them and dump them into a text file or word doc under subject title and keep it. Like I do (and most others here, too.) There were 3-4 un-fvcking-real gems that I, uh, forgot to do this with...

Part of the process, dude, don't beat yourself up about it. Relax and work with it. You've got no skill, little experience, and a bit of book learnin'. What do you do? Start small and slowly escalate it. What you did was jump into the deep end first time in the pool. Start...

Girls--being competitive--will sabotage another woman from getting a guy that she can't get. Guess what those guys did to you? Guess what those guys are acting like? Don't sweat it. Sucks to be them...

Ok, me first! :D

Boy, the DJs are gonna have fun with this post.... :D

Haven't done this in awhile... For the record--bp nailed it above. I'm just going to enjoy hearing myself talk with the following. Y'all can skip it if you don't enjoy hearing me talk as much as I do ;) ... In short--this is a one-itis. By definition--leave the scene! LJBF her for...

Not quite harsh, bp, it was pretty good. You were speaking directly and little bluntly. This feels harsh but it really isn't. Your "writing voice" is direct and doesn't have any equivocations or "make nice" phrases--so it comes off as strong--kinda like a "lower the shot gun and fire of...

2 weeks? Whoa! Slow down. Gotta work on that emotional control. You're just acquaintances here. I know---those hormones are unreal!--that's what's clouding your mind, I think. Anyway--I think the advice on telling her that you want more but won't take her with a BF is nearly there, but...

YOU are playing too many games and are seriously about to fvck the dvck on this one. She's giving hints that you should've made your move already and she's getting tired while you're still doing basic set up stuff. So take a risk. Ask her out. Make a move. Set-up time is over. Wait any...

I think that mystery that you're talking about Bugsy has a short expiration date---name, address, school, major, home town, job, car--etc. Sure, don't trot it all out--if she asks, go ahead an answer as if it's no big deal, but this will all come out anyway. Try to do the...

Sounds like he needs to prove to himself that it can't be salvaged--denial or inexperience or both. Probably needs to go through it at least once. The next time he hears those words, he won't waste as much time.

It might be better if you posted the situation, what they said and why you think they're lying. Certain things could be spotted by us (blow off lines, etc.) others--maybe not. Anyway--what's at stake if they're lying to you? This is something playing in the back of my head for awhile---...

Just some observations....I got these from others and just keep seeing these confirmed over and over: Young women will--to a great percentage--have a BF or make it appear like they have a BF, or, at the least, keep the issue fuzzy enough so that it could be that she has one. The younger...

Tips...? Good one--even if it doesn't work, it's fun worth trying. And if it does work, how else can you extend it?

Street corners in bad parts of town?