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    Call when she said or postpone

    It's a test to see if you do what you're told. Like a paper-trained puppy. Of course, she can make you pay for not doing what you're told by getting pyssy or blowing you off. For most AFCs, this snaps them right back into line. But consider this--don't call her as she ordered you to...
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    Out-Don Juan'ed

    Ok--now I think we got what you're after. He's gone in 5 days? Lose him means go elsewhere. You and increasingly everyone else but losers in his life will take the same action. Some day he'll die alone (or sorrounded by losers..) The issue is that he can humiliate you and you can't do...
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    Her FIRST Blow-Up

    Be willing to lose her. You saw it as childish. Respect that! It WAS and IS childish. Stand by your view. Or you can cave and apologize (she certainly isn't doing that, is she?) and she'll know that she can pull bad behavior and get you to roll over like a whipped puppy everytime. My...
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    Out-Don Juan'ed

    Gotcha, apprentice--the real issue then is that you've outgrown him--(and her, she doesn't even really count here, does she?)--you're ready for more quality people in your life. He gets next'd (and she is so history next doesn't apply anymore) since his @sshole-ness now costs you more than...
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    Help Please Lost Erection Im Freaking Out

    What turns you on often gets shuttled off into a patterned response. Call it Pavlovian training, conditioning, whatever. NLP uses it for enhanced responses to certain stimuli. For example, you want to be socially engaging and feeling up so you practice before hand and "link" it to an obscure...
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    Out-Don Juan'ed

    1) Just curious, which one of us here was it that introduced you to this site? 2) Bros before hos. Tell friend numb-nuts to re-read that part of the bible... 3) Good thing you've hung around a natural DJ and modeled after him....but he's just lifted his leg and marked his territory for...
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    Female Player forums?

    Cosmo. Vogue. InStyle. Glamour. Tiger Beat...
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    Help Please Lost Erection Im Freaking Out

    Make her put the condom on while she's down there. Just a suggestion... You (like me) may hate condoms. Maybe it breaks the flow, so to speak, so maybe you need to practice and re-wire your response patterns or something.
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    Her FIRST Blow-Up

    You made the same mistake twice and you want to know if it's Ok to make it a third time---right?
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    asking if she has a BF before asking for phone #?

    BG nailed it. If she has a BF or not or is dating 5 separate guys each week is--at this moment--NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. The thing I don't like is asking up front is pvssy-footing around. It's as if you're saying "I'm not gonna risk anything unless it's safe to enter..." Get real, it's...
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    Being proud that you're still a virgin

    Thought better of it...
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    Help Please Lost Erection Im Freaking Out

    It never comes back once you lose it. Shyt dude....
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    Been following the Claire seduction story?

    Don't tell her off about the tests. As for past mistakes: a) what's done is done, you can't change that-- b) you can, however LEARN from it; and c) it will ABSOLUTELY mean that long term prospects are irretrievably fvcked~~~~IF~~~~you believe that you're locked into that. d) it...
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    Open "relationships"?

    Sounds like a complex form of ASD, as in they have an up front an open agreement that is honest and real and -- get this --- means they're not sluts. ASD. Whether they went into this complex explanation or not, they'd still be doing it--always have. What you posted was the equivalent of...
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    I look gay

    It's not their job to approach, it's yours... So no issue there, right? Looking gay, though..? I'm straight, but my roommate is a gay male model--fvcking unreal gorgeous, but obviously gay. Me? You can tell I'm not just by the way I dress (and I don't dress badly, btw...) I live...
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    2 Years later .... how shoud I act.

    Ok--I understand English is his second language, but what does "Roll in Audi at 18" mean? She's an 18 yr old rolling (driving) an Audi--??? I dunno... Ok, 2 years later: it's a new thing, sure. Maybe you changed and it's obvious, maybe not. My take on it?---This is a blow-off line...
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    My life as the "Invisible Man"

    Funny---I remember the invisible thing and other variations. Remember this one? You are single and NO girl pays attention to you. Period. But--!! You get a GF and--I shyt you not--every fvcking 8.5+ chick walking down the godd@mn street and her 9.2 friend both--yes! both!--STOP and...
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    My freind has turned into a real DJ, I'm impressed. But hes so fu<kin ugly!

    There's a problem here? You're on track. Comparing yourself to your mate--while inevitable--won't get you anywhere. But it can be useful. Like D'Angelo says, hang around your mate, a natural DJ, and just soak up what he does. Just being around him will do that. So, you're like 18.5...
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    How do i deal with this girl? (long)

    Notice the over-riding pattern of Clint's post: Internet = fantacy. Meet in person = cold, harsh reality. Maybe the reality is truly fine, but it is real. Internet relationships cannot be. Maybe the cold harsh truth of Krassus' girl is truly fine--but then, why would she be on the...
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    Been following the Claire seduction story?

    That was a test. She pulled a test. She used tears, emotion, accusing you of being like others and putting it upon you to prove different... Cold. Wow. Your first reaction is to reassure her. Mistake--but how can you resist? I know--been there--it's hard. But you have to. To...
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