is being a dj or AFC hideing my jealousy

[DraGon_luv]

Is being a Dj hiding my Jealousy or it is being an afc???


I am under house aresst but, i had a meeting at work this

morning, so i decided to pop in a vist my gf for a bit(my first visit)

since i can only go to work, the between time for me going to

work and back i somtimes do sutle things.

When i see my gf in her work for the first time, she did'nt seem

that happy or suprised to see me, i was lik wtf?

(mabey shes mad cause i didnt return her call yesterday(being our 3 month annerverisry)

I chatted a bit with her, then i casualy asked her what she did

last night, she told me She went for a drink with Dave ,

after she told me that she was like

her: you know drew right? (he goes to same school as us)

Me: umm ... i not sure mabey

Her: yeah he one of my old friend ( Her ex- Bf)

I dont know why she just didnt say ex-bf, i would be very

suspicious but along time ago she told me she use to go out with

him , its just this time she said old friend instead of ex,

suspicious?

i then was chating a little more , i notice she jsut got in for her

shift and was busy so i was like we'll i best get going now , give

me a call later bye. ( then i left the store confidently)


My question to my DJ family is

Should i confront her , or act like none of this bugs me?

i am planning on talking with her and asking her why didnt she

just say ex bf and if i went out with one of my ex gf how would

she feel?



By the way this girl is a very cool girl, super hot,and smart But

thanks to you my brothers i wont hurt to much to Next her, let me

know what you guys think, i am sorta confused,


thanks bro's

 

[DraGon_luv]

Dave and Drew are the same person, i jsut mixed up the names

that might have been confusing

 

[lollipop]

Stop

typing

like

this!

It's

really

annoying!

 

[PEACEDJ]

hahahaha

yeah

Lollipop

is

right

it

is

annoying

but back to your question Dragon luv, a DJ would be calm in all situations, he would be in control. Don't lose your temper and show your insecurites. Be optimistic, forget about little things like this, so what if she hangs out with her ex! She didn't committ a crime.


PS. Your maybe** is spelled wrong hehehe

 

[DraGon_luv]

thats the thing i dont know what she did?


should i act like it does not bug me or confront her that it does?

 

[iqqi]

why didn't you call her back? would you be mad if she didn't call you back about something that was important to you, and then the next day she acted like absolutely nothing had happened? you disregarded her feelings, and maybe she is thinking about nexting you because you are careless.

 

[DraGon_luv]

well thing is , i not very needy so i dont call, i belive thats a trait

that attracts her to me, i knew i was going to see her the next

day anyways, the next day we chilled, and i slept with her, but

the thing is i havent brought up the Ex-bf thing yet , i am

contemplating leaving the issue alone, or possibly just killing him..

 

[TesuqueRed]

#1:

What

don't

you

understand

about

not

doing

this?

_______________
#2:

If jealousy is present, you do hide it if nothing else. What you really should do is deal with it.

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#3:

She's dumping you. IMO, she really isn't your GF anymore, just in name only---kinda like when a marriage has ended but the paperwork hasn't been done yet: you're technically married, but not in reality. She's already exited the relationship emotionally and is trying to give you hints to get lost so that she doesn't have to have a difficult conversation.

You do have an option, though: jack her first and move on. She'll feel like shyt and you'll have the upper hand.

 

[DraGon_luv]

sorry about typing like that but i rather space, cause i thoguht it pissed people more not to space , hmmmm mabey your right......... but what gives you the idea that you think its over?

just by her going for a drink once with her ex? if she want to cheat on me she would have lied no?

 

[DraGon_luv]

oh yeah and when i thoguht she was not happy to see me she atually told she was really happy to see me come visit her at work

 

[DankNuggs]

She wants you to know that she's seeing her ex again...girls are extremely aware of the information they give and are generally subtle in how they get it across. If she mentioned him twice, she is trying to get you jealous for some reason...Think if you mentioned twice that you went for drinks with some girl, she'd flip her $hit. The dude obviously spent his time hitting on her, so if she seems like she enjoyed the date, you can pretty much tell she is looking elsewhere...

 

[DraGon_luv]

damned thats messed,, i ddint think she was like that ,, looks like i might have to next her.. its a shame though she was cool, she even made me a whole bunch of stuff with paper stickers and card board before,...


thing i still wonder is , if she is seeing him why wont she jsut tlak to me about breaking up?

things between be and her still seem cool its just , the fact she went for drinks with him..

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
#1:

What

don't

you

understand

about

not

doing

this?

_______________
#2:

If jealousy is present, you do hide it if nothing else. What you really should do is deal with it.

_______________
#3:

She's dumping you. IMO, she really isn't your GF anymore, just in name only---kinda like when a marriage has ended but the paperwork hasn't been done yet: you're technically married, but not in reality. She's already exited the relationship emotionally and is trying to give you hints to get lost so that she doesn't have to have a difficult conversation.

You do have an option, though: jack her first and move on. She'll feel like shyt and you'll have the upper hand.

#1 Man, people on this board really crack me up

#2 Good point...

#3 But isn't HE the one who's not returning calls here? I mean hell, if you're under HOUSE ARREST, and you won't even call your girl back... that's bound to get her to re-evaluate things.

 

[DraGon_luv]

well you know i still need to have some mystery and be a challenge , since i am under house aresst, there's not many things i can do to keep that up, like i have been