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Louie, the very fact that you are so self-aware is already fantastic. Recognition of a problem is already half the solution. There are hundreds of thousands of people who live their entire lives in loneliness and quiet anger and depression. And this is not just some new-age or recent...

Definitely agree with the assessment that all women tend to "fill out" as they age, and that younger skinny women tend to get just right the older they get, while the curvaceous young cutie turns into a grazing water buffalo Roseanne very, very quickly. Let's just say I've been there, done...

You honestly can't think of a way to control your phone conversations? What happens if this works out, and you get married? What happens when you must agree on where you'll live, the color of the carpet, the kind of car you buy, who you'll be friends with, etc., etc. It's called 'p*ssy...

A female comedian compared sex to rain (or snow) this way. "Sex is like the rain...you never know how many inches you'll get or how long it will last." In my life, it's been "feast or famine" and both situations have been completely unpredictable. Additionally, the quality can vary greatly...

You handle it by realizing it's a fun game to talk to girls and get as far as asking for their phone numbers. You're far ahead of most men in the US today by even asking. Even though the statistics are that every 100 girls you hit on, only 4 or 5 will actually give you her number with the...

If you were really, really hot over some girl, as in "Love", tell me honestly would you even slightly mention one of your old girlfriends, much less tell your new girl that you'd need to sort things out first? [buzzer sound] Kudos to you for having enough intuition to notice and write...

Most importantly, you should have something to DO, other than sexual maneuvers, at your place. You should have a VCR with movies, or a foosball game or a front porch swing, or a pool, or a game of Pictionary, or you like to cook and she likes it too, or you both work on your antique car. The...

"...you are correct that i am being insecure, to a point. I should focus more on how I feel about myself, and that should take care of any jealousy problems. Because when you're secure with yourself, you know it doesn't matter what happens, because you can handle everything." You...

True. In a university introductory art class we were all asked to 'critique' a certain painting of our choice in a local museum. I forgot which painting it was, but I chose it because I liked it. The painting was a pastoral quiet scene and it not only made me feel good to view it, I felt...

Yes, it is "by the book", but you gotta imagine that 'doc' doesn't know what the background is of his customers. He's got to assume the guy buying his system is a complete loser, clueless, nerd, AFC. He's got to assume that the guy needs everything covered from the feet on up as far as finding...

Some of your affirmations are things you have no control over. For example you don't know if (in her eyes) other guys match up to you, or are a better catch, or that you're the preferred male. In other words, every one of your affirmations are centered around what SHE thinks, rather than...

If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Do NOT get all teary-eyed and demonstrative. Here you are being all stoic and sh*t, and it drives her crazy with desire. Why tamper with success? Let her say the L word until her teeth fall out, with you only grudgingly saying it. Obviously she's...

Some people confuse 'race' with 'ethnicity'. Before multiculturalism and politically corrected thinking, world anthropologists came up with only 5 basic "races" that had specific quantifiable differences: Caucasian Mongoloid (originating in Mongolia, or "Oriental") Eskimo American...

Your attitude and fears will give you away. The fact that you're even nervous WILL be picked up by her radar, so it's best you catch these insecure thoughts you're having and STOP them immediately. Think of pretty white clouds, or the Dow-Jones Average if necessary, but know that women have a...

A severely "broken heart", and everything else at that time too for that matter, got me here. AFC Codependent Avoidant Dependent Depressed You name it, I was there about 3 years ago. There was nowhere to go but up. Even then I was so far down in a fetid hole I had to crawl just to...

Duh, when have I NOT had this problem. Even while banging my current concubine, my mind will wander to a past encounter or vision of a previous hot chick. To me it's normal. What ever you want to think of or imagine, or fantasize about is up to you. And the beauty part of it is that it's...

STOP STARING AT MY GIRL. Her name is Heather, and she's my current concubine/squeeze/sword sheath. She prefers being naked so I had to talk her into wearing that black Victoria's Secret negligee just so you guys wouldn't throw a rod. The mods here also requested it. If I ever dump her...

Rule of Thumb: It takes half as long as the relationship lasted, to get over it. "She said if she wasn't married she would" which leads me to believe you already announced your desire to boink a married woman who is not your wife. If I were a woman listening to this, I'd never ever...

You are very low priority with her. If it were me, I'd simply stop calling her. No explanation, no "sorry we have to break up", no nothing. Ignore her from day one. If you want to try again make absolutely sure you make a specific time/place/activity 'date'. Ironclad she understands...

To recount, many years ago, after lurking here for a few months and finding the topics helpful but the replies and conversation conflicting or confusing, I decided to drop the $100 bucks, especially seeing as how "Doc" has a 30-day return policy. At first was disappointed with the overall...