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We all spent a long weekend sharing a large condo in Destin, Florida with several other of Sally and Robert's friends, all from the U.S. I was invited by one of Sally's friends from high school, and the two of us mainly went to the beach and clubs on our own, but still managed to interact with...

What will the outcome of this be? Robert was from England, 24, and working in the US with a 6-month work visa when he happened to meet Sally, age 19 one summer. Sally was beautiful and elgantly hotttt, and could have posed for Playboy. They dated a few times and then saw each other...

Unhealthy: Become reclusive and isolated from reality, eccentric and nihilistic. Highly unstable and fearful of aggressions: they reject and repulse others and all social attachments. / Get obsessed yet frightened by their threatening ideas, becoming horrified, delirious, and prey to gross...

Well, I mighta overdone it. Sometimes it's nice to get lots of answers as a kind of consensus, especially if your nerves are through the roof. Obviously he's feeling a lot of emotion and is winding himself up tighter than an 8-day clock about being around his ex again. Been there, done...

Kino is touching that is so subtle and non-sexual you'd do it to your grandmother. You touch her arm to get her attention when she's looking elsewhere. You touch the center of her back as she precedes you through a door. You lustfully grab a handful of her fine ripe a** as she gets into the...

What, you haven't found an answer you like yet? What is it you want to hear? How about "When you see her, tell her you miss her. Keep up strong eye contact. Ask her about her personal life and if she misses you. Touch her occasionally so she'll get the message that you still get woodies...

Dude, not only are you depressed and have been for so long it now feels normal, but you're also in denial about it. Finding a girl will only calm the symptoms. You need to face this head-on like a man and take care of YOU and make yourself a complete healthy person before trying to bring a...

Never talk sex to a girl. Always keep a clean mouth around women until you've been in a committed relationship with her for at least six months. Or more. Potty mouth may make you C&F with the guys but with the girls, even though they may laugh and cut up with you, it's registering on them...

Treat her with the same politeness that you would any salesman that knocks on your front door, or calls you on the phone. But as with a salesman, occaisionally glance at your watch, and know that the 'relationship' with the salesman will get nowhere. Same as your ex. Polite but that's all.

For "laymen" (no pun intended. LOL) You are depressed, more than you're willing to admit to yourself. Your post describes someone who is depressed. I just did a web search for "depression symptoms" which gave the following checklist. It said that you did not have to fulfill all of these...

Depression. Although, concommitant with depression is usually loss of libido.

A problem recognized and identified is a problem half solved. Many of us here (me included) have struggled with some aspects of shyness, insecurity or other neurotic aspects of our personalities, or else we wouldn't be here. Were we happily successful with interpersonal relationships, we'd...

Awright, apologies for clobbering you with the steam shovel first, but there have been, and you've probably observed, some guys who just don't 'get' the subtle approach. Ya tend to tippy-toe around trying to be all nice and sh*t and the next thing you know he's writing again a week or month...

This is a joke, right? You are joking. C'mon, please repost and say this was a joke. I mean, who would actually believe this story? Let's see, she's separated for over a year now. Uh huh, so since when is 'separated' somehow equal to 'legally divorced'? You're having an adulterous affair...

Attitude and desire are the most important ingredients in a successful relationship. Even the most amazing initial attraction can be a dud unless both have a feeling of desire and a positive attitude for working to a common goal. If you are comfortable in her presence and she in yours...

Were I you, I'd try to find your girl NOW. The reason is that if and when you graduate and suppose you do bring in some serious coin, it will be that much harder to separate the good girls who are interested in 'you' from the mercenaries who are interested in your wallet. If you want a girl...

LOL, to be honest though, I tend to only post the real 'problems' here. Note I said the real problems since I've come to see that everyone and every situation is a problem. It just depends on whether or not you have the emotional equipment to deal with it. So, you guys only hear about the...

Welll, this woman will tell me to stop because she feels she can't get to the big "O" and she doesn't want to frustrate me more, but then she'll make up for it by insisting that she go down on me. Difficult to just outright NEXT a girl for that attitude! But I still entertain ideas of...

Yes, seriously considering NEXTing her. It was actually a relief to hear some of her life last night as it confirmed some of my intuitions and suspicions. She seems to want to sweep so much under the rug, so to speak. She has got such an incredible body! But this would be like buying a...