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Trust me, she's been told worse. There are ulterior motives for her telling you this. She's measuring your reaction.

No, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be single. But be single. And please, don't be with someone just so you won't "hurt them". What do you think you are going to end up doing eventually anyway? I've always hated that as an excuse. It's a cop out. If you want to be alone, be alone...

I use Meetup.com to meet people with similar tastes in outdoor activities, bars/restaurants. Needless to say, I've tried keeping my "dating" life separate from Meetup. I don't need to use it as a hunting ground for women and I try to make it pretty clear as well. I met a couple there and the...

I thought you said there were no red flags about this girl? How is this NOT a huge red flag? HUGE, HUGE, HUGE red flag. What in the BLUE HELL are you thinking? It's not only disrespectful for someone to text anyone at that hour but she actually was LOOKING at the messages at that time...

It's the advice of many that have been through similar situations, and it seemed pretty sound to me. For now... with her tax return money. So you are basically saying... loan it one more time but with an ultimatum. Essentially what mostly everyone has been saying or hinting at... one way...

My mom always shot straight with me because she didn't want me to repeat the same mistakes her or my father made. She always emphasized that I should make my own life a priority first and to be happy... not to have any one woman be the source of my happiness. She never pushed me into getting...

Upon discovering these forums, my frame of knowledge shifted from "How to get women" to "How to become a better ME". Once I did that, I realized my life was much better for it and my social life followed suit. The blue pill, the red pill, self-awareness, getting unplugged, manosphere...

I love the fact that your opening sentence is "Women are so unstable these days"... but this thread is pretty much about how unstable you are feeling over the course of 24 hours. Course correct yourself. It's texting/calling. It's not that big of a deal. She should be the one worried that...

I was with someone for 6+ years. For 6+ years I wanted her to get better with money. Whenever her paycheck rolled around, she'd be right back down to $0 and I had to pay for a lot of our outings. I thought her being around me and learning from me would help. It didn't. I was part of the problem...

She could easily cost you your job if she keeps that stuff up. I'd have to agree with the "restraining order" advice. That is just straight up disrespectful. I'm willing to bet she wants "answers" now because that guy is no longer seeing her so she's reverting to last known phase... which is...

First of all... embrace this one thought... He's not the reason for the separation... SHE IS. Then proceed accordingly.

This is like one of those Facebook statuses where it's just very vague and a desperate call for attention. Say it isn't so! BB, you gotta let us know what's going on and why this topic. You can't just come in here and drop something like that and then peace out.

What do I think? I think it doesn't matter as long as you honestly don't care and she isn't a priority in your life (Example: She's Plate C in my rotation of 4 plates). But the fact that this thread exists means that: (A) You actually do care about her and it's bothering you (B) You...

I think you are severely overthinking this for a woman who has a boyfriend and is only here for a few days. It honestly sounds like you are trying to turn her into your girlfriend and are going to try to take her out on a date. Why don't you just let things happen... and see where it all...

I hate dealing with "theoretical absolutes" when it comes to human beings because we are all so fickle and could not only switch internal philosophies on the drop of the dime, but we could very well also betray a lifetime of programming based on our own survival and well-being. I'd love to...

NYC is a completely different beast. I've seen people get laughed at because they had a car. You can't compare the lack of ownership of a vehicle in NYC as compared to any other place. It really is a non-issue. I live in New Jersey and have never driven to NYC or in NYC. It's pointless.

Oh no. Oh no no no no no. Oh no. Oh god, no. You think she's been waiting around for you for years? You already call her "wifey"? Take things slowly? How could you possibly take things any SLOWER. Please tell me you already got her number at least, by this point. Because I get the...

Joint accounts? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176381 Still. I've seen couples do them successfully when the joint account is done with direct deposit and specifically just for joint bills like utilities, rent (mortgage), etc... Stuff like that. But once there is complete...

I think out of the last 10 women I've gone out with (semi-seriously) about 8 of them made more money than I did, and they knew it too. But: (1) I never carried myself as if she was the main breadwinner (2) They knew I had the potential to further my career and make more than them...

I don't think you are understanding what is being said to you throughout the thread. You were advised not to do certain things and leave it alone... you did, look at the end result. I get that you feel that you connected in a way that is "unmatched" but understand that only YOU feel that way...