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You tell someone you don't want to have any type of a relationship with them, at all. They react accordingly. And continue to do so. What psychology are you trying to analyze?

Um, you guys, he is just asking what he can do to pass time. Yes, that shows dependency, but he's not asking for advice on what to do if his fiancée cheats on him or whatnot. He just needs suggestions on how to deal with his time while she isn't around. To the OP, don't you have any...

Jesus Christ, guys. Some of these replies are just ridiculous. "If she isn't texting all the time, she's not interested!" Really? Do some of you know that there were times were texting wasn't a part of the daily tedium? Come on now. As long as the girl keeps showing up and everything goes...

Seriously, to echo TicTac's sentiment. Do you really have to ask "WTF" as to why she won't talk to you at work? First of all... AT WORK? Dude, you completely blew her proposition away of being friends... which is fine, but then you wonder why she won't talk to you? I have to ask to you...

You know that guy who posts a story and asks for advice and then says that everyone is wrong and that they don't know the full situation? (Mostly because of the failure to accurately describe the situation as well) You know that guy who goes on and on with posts and fails to see the situation...

Brother, let me tell you something... when she took her ring off and threw it at your face, she was trying to tell you something. The whole act is symbolic. She's willing to throw her whole relationship out the window for a health club membership. Why do you think that is? Why do you think it is...

I had posted something along the lines of what Desdinova had said and promptly deleted it. I wanted to give this a bit more thought... But essentially, my point was going to be: Define "successful". So they get into an LTR for 1-2-3 years, break up, and jump into another relationship...

15 minutes into a first date: "I want to suck you cvck so hard, Imma have a sore throat right after."

She TOLD you she turned off her phone. I can guarantee she didn't. BTW, you can shut off Whatsapp and still have your phone on. And the fact that you are checking the times, shows you are too emotionally invested. She texted you at night just to be nice, give you an update and then...

I have a LOT of problems with this issue, simply because I've gone through phases... I've gone through the "karma" phase where I think I don't want to do it because it could come back around to me. I wonder how valid this self-realization is. Is karma real or is it born out of a mental...

Gauging her IL? There is no IL. You are just chit-chatting with her and she's either responding out of boredom at the time or politeness. Don't text her back... like, at all. Just let this one go. I'd ask what happened on the first date so you could maybe learn from that, but in my...

This entire thread suggests otherwise. You really need to keep yourself in check with this girl or you will be joining that guy and doing love graffiti together for her. Everything you've outlined in here suggests that you are taking her way more seriously than you seem to think. Any FWB...

By the way, she didn't really turn off her phone. That's just what she is telling you. It sounds like you are better off moving on. It doesn't seem like you know how to separate the physical from the emotional just yet. She should be the one texting you to see where you were and not the...

You say you gave her three different options. To me it sounded like the same option, just re-worded differently three times. It all involved getting something to eat. Can you do that on your own and then do something else... after the first time she told you not to? I wouldn't even have gone...

What's the "WTF" for? It's obvious that your date wasn't as "great" for her as it was for you. Why are you spending $60 on a first date... with someone from Tinder? Change your approach, spend less. How long did this date go on for? You can NEXT her, but keep in mind, she already...

You need to slow her roll down. I know it sounds great that she wants to do all of this with you but it seems a little overbearing. Remember, that everything you do now is going to set a precedent for the future. If you say "YES" to everything now, what's to stop you from saying "NO" in the...

So what's the problem with what you guys are doing right now? Why change it? Don't try to lock her down, she's supposed to be trying that with you. You might need to start seeing her a little less.

Anytime I have flaked on a girl it was because I had a better option at the time. I thought long and hard about this and that was probably the only reason. And when I mean "better option", I don't necessarily mean a "better woman". I've had dates set up where I suddenly realize there might...

I think I was with DieHard on this about 3 or 4 years ago. On a general level, I can agree with all of this. On another level, I just don't know that I "care" enough. What I mean by that is that I take any opportunity for social interaction no matter how ridiculous it can seem. Just two...

And this is your biggest problem right here. Trust me, like Vlad said, she is NOT naive. In fact, she is the smartest person in this triangle. She's playing you like a fiddle and you are so stuck on the fact that you could possibly have a sex with a latin girl, that you are willing to...