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So she's a psycho slvt that started giving you head in a bar's bathroom, might have had a cold sore, admitted to banging someone else recently... and you went all jealous boyfriend on her? Something's not right about this. Get your shiet together because that one is playing you like an...

The fact that there are two separate conversations is mostly my fault, samspade, but I embrace that fact. I do like the views brought by both sides of the argument as to whether we should shun it... or to exploit it. I like that frame of thinking. I think that's one I can agree on. I...

I really, REALLY hope you aren't killing your attraction to this girl with all this over-exposure. It sounds like even without a physical relationship, she already dominates a chunk of your day. I get that it's temporary, but even before you go for 14 days... a lot could happen in a month's...

Typically FZ refers to when she isn't interested in you and a guy is stuck there... it usually has a negative connotation. I've willingly placed myself into the FZ with women but there was always an underlying sexual tone. I just never chose to pursue anything other than a "friendly"...

You do know you are in the Friendzone, right? This girl is playing both of you... like a fiddle... on easy mode.

My problem isn't getting it... that I am fine with. My problem is that I don't like the shift from social interaction to technological interaction. I do text, so at least that much I do embrace. It's more of a personal reliance on certain social media apps. You'd think you were stabbing...

Who cares what she says about 50 dollars. It isn't 100% a guarantee she is asking for money... but definitely a red flag to keep aware of. Sometimes women just talk about ANYTHING that comes to their mind... but don't be surprised if you two go out and the bill comes, she uses that as a callback...

Here's my thing though... I'm not bothered by people checking their phones. For one, I have family members I communicate mostly through text because their lives are too busy and schedules are too different from mine, so it's easier and not done with a sense of urgency. It's mostly about...

Do NOT text right away. You live in New York (I'm assuming NYC) so you can go out any night. You did good by getting her number and all that jazz, but you don't want to just seem too eager unless you really don't care that much about the outcome (Which doesn't seem to be the case). There...

Now before I get "U MAD BRO" responses, let me preface by saying this... I embrace technology. I love it when it can make our lives simpler but not to the point where we have to avoid basic human interaction by simply sticking our noses into our phones. Years ago, I thought the evolution of...

I won't go so far as to say that she is having sex with other men, but she is definitely feeling comfortable enough in your relationship that she feels like she doesn't need to do it on your terms anymore. You let her move in, she has what she wants for the time being and thinks she has you for...

Let him learn on his own. Just be ready to help him when he does ask you for advice. Otherwise, not much you can do. Sometimes you just have to let people make their own mistakes. Other than that, you just can't come at him hard... sometimes people just aren't ready to get deprogrammed...

Hate to say it, but it's getting worse too. Even women in their thirties are so attached to social media, its ridiculous. In certain areas, I've become a pariah of sorts. I've seen women hanging out at bars, posting a picture on Instagram/Facebook of the bar they are at and the drink they...

You are only 25, and I'm not being condescending, but the only way you gain experience in situations like these is by going through the situations themselves. Instead of harping on how it sucks that you folded a bit, contemplate how you can use this situation to learn and improve if the...

WAS interested? Quite possibly. We'll never know. There is no 100% guarantee to that being the absolute truth. IS interested? That's up to her to decide. You left the ball in her court. Now you get to game other plates until this one decides to roll back around... or doesn't.

I made it to #2 and already knew where this was going to go... then as I scrolled down, I saw "likes to get spanked" and "issues with father". RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN. Stop talking to her and then... RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN...

In trying to be "too suave" and to get her "muddled"... you were the one who ended up muddled. You came at her as if she was a guy who was supposed to understand exactly what you were saying. It doesn't work like that. You don't bring it back, because your last message to her was an...

You need to stop taking this one so seriously. #1: She's under 25 and already has a history of drama with you. #2: You should be gaming other girls that are your primary plates. #3: Who cares if she does or doesn't? I'm worried that you are looking at her like an LTR prospect. Just...

Oh, you fell for it. As soon as she texted you a "goodbye", you immediately responded... not only that, but you responded in an argumentative manner. You went from not talking to her in 3 days to responding every 5 minutes. You completely undid all that "too busy so I'm not available" vibe...

You broke up with her. That's your final "win". That should keep your ego intact. Why has she gotten over you so easily? Because she found someone else who has temporarily decided to put up with her crap. Just remember the reasons why you broke up with her in the first place and forget the...