So her BF showed up.

[Tyson420]

I've lurked here to look for advice, thanks for the help.

A week before she asked me out but she said she's not asking me out again (I guess that meant it's not a date) which was fine, she hasn't seen me in a long time. She was interested in me 4 years ago but I wasn't, still she messaged me every year to see how I'm doing.
Grabbed lunch, she wanted to see X-Men. Ok.
I ended up liking her, she loves video games, and reading, and she can ****ing cook. Christ, but isn't that hot. At least a 6 in looks.
Some kino as we left.
Hug goodbye, texted me later said she enjoyed herself.
Checked her FB for the first time. she has a BF. ****. I sized him up, curly haired nerd with a belly, taller than me. Looks like Seth Rogan.
I asked her out again to Playdium, I ask when was the last time she's been there.
Last week, with her BF. She avoided mentioning him up until now.
Aw well, lots of kino, played 2 player games.
Had lunch in the food court of the mall, she's adorable and clumsy. As we walked out, more kino. I was going to kiss her.
Her boyfriend was just outside, she could see him.
"You wanna meet my BF?"
Not wanting to show weakness, I just said "Yes."
"Are you sure?"
("What kind of question is that? Why would she think I wouldn't want to meet him?")
"Yes."
Alright, he had the sour look on his face, shook my hand. Unnecessarily strong grip so I squeezed back. I thought it was funny so I couldn't help but smile.
Asked my name, I said Tyson, asked for his.
"I thought she mentioned me."
Shook my head with a smile, "Nope."
I really think I should have given her a hug and kiss on the cheek to show dominance now that I think back on it, but this never happened to me before.
It sucks but like Omar from The Wire would say, It's all in the game.
I left, she texted me she wants to go again, she had a great time. We flirted a bit.
I don't know, this seems both weird and dangerous. That look he gave me was scary, he knows I'm trying to **** her.

 

[AttackFormation]

Why won't this b!tch break up with him if she wants to f*ck someone on the side? you're dating a wh0re. You take it as a competition between you and him for her that you think you'll win, which is fair, but all I see is another woman getting away with crap behaviour and the men around her playing their parts in it like good little dogs.

 

[Tyson420]

Why won't this b!tch break up with him if she wants to f*ck someone on the side? you're dating a wh0re. You take it as a competition between you and him for her that you think you'll win, which is fair, but all I see is another woman getting away with crap behaviour and the men around her playing their parts in it like good little dogs.

I know, but I like her. Maybe if I take her, she won't do that with me. (That's naive, I know.) I kind of suspect this only something she'd do only do that with him, his entire demeanor screamed insecure and inexperienced and he probably has no idea how to deal with this black dude who keeps taking his girl out.

 

[AttackFormation]

Ok so you want her to be your girlfriend. I thought it was fine as a fling because the drama is amusing and being with a girl like that is fine if you just want to f*ck her and leave anyway. At least you know it's naive.

Let's ask ourselves something, why did she make him her boyfriend in the first place? she's either dumb or likes cheating. I'd most likely do the same thing you're doing in your position so I can't blame you BUT only if I could keep an emotional detachment. Don't waste your time falling for a girl like this.

 

[goldengoose]

I know, but I like her. Maybe if I take her, she won't do that with me. (That's naive, I know.) I kind of suspect this only something she'd do only do that with him, his entire demeanor screamed insecure and inexperienced and he probably has no idea how to deal with this black dude who keeps taking his girl out.

Don't be a fool, she will do the same thing to you if you manage to get her,, when she thinks she is getting an upgrade from you. Get a bang or two if you can, but don't invest into this chick because you will turn out just like her nerdy bf some day.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Just go find some other girl. You can do better than a 6. I think one of the reasons why you wanna bang her is just to be dominant over this BF guy. I'd anticipate that after banging her you'd be like "that's what all the fuss was about?" and then quickly lose interest. Which is kind of a d!ck move. I mean if you're gonna try to take some guy's girl...at least have pretty high interest in her and make sure she's attractive. It seems like this doesn't serve much purpose other than to validate your ego. And if your validating your ego by banging some curly haired beta chode's girl who is like a 6... That probably means you need to find higher quality girls.

I apologize for bringing morality into this, but this forum is not about fvcking other guys' girls just because you feel like it. Be honest with yourself. This girl is neither hot enough physically nor high enough quality dating-material (if she's willing to cheat) to justify you going after her.

Not to mention: If she did it to him, she will do it to you.

 

[Jaylan]

I know, but I like her. Maybe if I take her, she won't do that with me. (That's naive, I know.) I kind of suspect this only something she'd do only do that with him, his entire demeanor screamed insecure and inexperienced and he probably has no idea how to deal with this black dude who keeps taking his girl out.

Time for some real talk;

Youre an idiot if you believe anything you wrote in that post.

Youre 26, and youve been here for 5 years....wise the fvk up. You cannot turn a slore into a respectable lady.

Why do you want some other dudes sloppy seconds? And why would you even think for a second that a low class cheating broad wouldnt pull the same sh!t on you once she craves some other new guys c0ck?

Let me say it again....wise the fvk up bro.

 

[Tyson420]

Time for some real talk;

Youre an idiot if you believe anything you wrote in that post.

Youre 26, and youve been here for 5 years....wise the fvk up. You cannot turn a slore into a respectable lady.

Why do you want some other dudes sloppy seconds? And why would you even think for a second that a low class cheating broad wouldnt pull the same sh!t on you once she craves some other new guys c0ck?

Let me say it again....wise the fvk up bro.

Every woman is a sloppy second, really. I know I'm being naive but since we're being real here.

 

[TARKUS]

Every woman is a sloppy second, really. I know I'm being naive but since we're being real here.

yeah but you can make the right decisions with women you see are not good relationship material.

 

[nismo-4]

Delete this hor from all platforms. You can do better.

 

[El Payaso]

Everybody seems against cheating all of a sudden.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Every woman is a sloppy second, really. I know I'm being naive but since we're being real here.

Yeah...wait, what?

 

[Kailex]

You do know you are in the Friendzone, right?

This girl is playing both of you... like a fiddle... on easy mode.

 

[zorg198]

a wh0re will remain a wh0re.

 

[jay07]

You do know you are in the Friendzone, right?

This girl is playing both of you... like a fiddle... on easy mode.

Yup. O.p. you aint even gonna eff her dude. Your d is getting hard over some flirty texts. She has no intention of bangin you.

 

[_sideways_]

why all the seriousness

It seems to me OP that this is just for fun.

if u do manage to steal her away make sure she asks for it. Don't propose to be her bf.

you like to hang out...she cooks you meals every now and then...regular bjs...so what?

but as always.. If u end up catching feelings and going AFC you only have urself to blame. So how strong are you?

I did the same thing for a year.

she cooked me meals using her and her mans food, kitchen, dinner ware. We played scrabble...shared our life. She fell in love with me.
would joke about how cute our babies would be.
I would run into her and her man and the dude was a chump.
she knew she had him hook line and everything.

never slept with her though... But I enjoyed my time being treated well by her.

you and only you draw the line.

enjoy this little freak girl. She's at a disadvantage by being with her current beta chump anyways.

 

[nismo-4]

He's in the friendzone and his princess is in another castle. What else is there to be said?

Case closed. I knew I forgot something!