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  1. Kailex

    I'm so confused. Advice needed.

    Warned you. Don't reply again. On the regular, I'd agree with Harry said but that applies to certain people and not everyone... in the sense that you two have a history behind this all. It's slightly different. To me it is a lost cause. It never really sounded like she had any intention of...
  2. Kailex

    I'm so confused. Advice needed.

    Hook. Line. Sinker. She's probably not going to go out with you. She probably was going through a break up, a rough patch and needed some emotional validation, so she reached out to you, made "plans" and saw you were ready and willing to jump right back at it... and might either set them and...
  3. Kailex

    Kailex's Journal

    Update... Right before I did Tough Mudder, I was at my leanest and best shape. Over the winter, I joined a Crossfit gym and got lazy and went back up to 164. I quit that gym and decided to workout on my own. It's been two weeks and I've integrated stuff I did from my pre Tough Mudder...
  4. Kailex

    BPD ex wont stop calling

    How about you stop playing games like a little kid and stop worrying about what is going "piss them off"? How about you act like a g-damn man and block them from your phone and your life simply because you want to move on? Don't you even give me this crap about how you are acting like she...
  5. Kailex

    POF girl's profile: No men can do right

    This cracked me up: So she basically is admitting to being a slvt. They trick her EVERY darn time! They blindside her! If they trick her every time... when is she saying "no"? Oh, you... of the bitter POF profile.
  6. Kailex

    Chicks Flaking: Always be the priority, not the afterthought

    Funny you mention that, because I was having that conversation over the weekend. Getting a number or even getting a kiss is no longer a measure of success and should just be treated superficially. I see a lot of people on these forums yelling "SUCCESS" because they keep getting numbers or a...
  7. Kailex

    Friends Birthday Meal And Drinks....

    Act like a normal human being would, friendly. Why would you try to make a scene at someone else's birthday meal and drinks extravaganza? Just let it be. Like you said, you two weren't even exclusive. It's only going to be awkward for YOU and you're the one making it awkward. I bet she'll...
  8. Kailex

    What happened to POF?

    They migrated from POF to OKC and Tinder. It's what herds of women do. Even a friend of mine was telling me about her experiences on Tinder... to which I replied, "You know that's a Fvck-app, right?" And she said she knew but it's what all her friends were on. Herd mentality.
  9. Kailex

    Help with Family Drama

    If you weren't over it, then it would have been pointless for you to go. Not just for you, but for them as well because I'm sure the topic would have surfaced at some point. We are to believe that because family is family, that we should just gloss over how we feel or how we were betrayed...
  10. Kailex

    ignored a booty call

    You do what I do... you don't respond at all. They'll text you again eventually. At least for me, they always do. If you try to text her without any sort of apology or explanation... she'll play it off any sort of way. Just don't text her.
  11. Kailex

    Not sure what to think?

    Who cares as to the "why"? You are really INTO this girl? Are you sure? She sounds like a walking red flag, specially for someone coming right out of a divorce. I don't get how you can take her seriously! She already admitting to having cheated on someone in the past. Is that something you...
  12. Kailex

    she left the bar with her ex.. am I overreacting?

    Suggestion: NOTHING. Seriously? You are considering this? Don't mess with yourself this way. Just move on. I swear, people just put themselves into ridiculous situations and expect better outcomes for no rhyme or reason.
  13. Kailex

    she left the bar with her ex.. am I overreacting?

    Oh stop it. I hate this kind of rationalizing. You know why some people are able to revisit women and bang them with no problem, because they are emotionally detached. If this thread exists, it is because you aren't. My advice, don't even answer her at ALL. Why? Because you are already...
  14. Kailex

    I’m watching marriages blow up left and right. It’s depressing.

    Pawn it. Might as well get a few dollars out of it.
  15. Kailex

    I’m watching marriages blow up left and right. It’s depressing.

    I'm pretty much done with the idea of marriage. It doesn't help that my parents are divorced and most of my aunts and uncles are as well, and that's the generation where it all began. Both my grandparents lasted until death parted them. My sister is set to get wed next year but she has...
  16. Kailex

    Never initiates Contact

    Does she still go out with you? Does she seem high IL when she is out with you? If "yes", then what's the problem? This is how dating used to be. You would go out with someone and not talk to them in between and text endlessly or facebook or use the ****ter. You used to talk in between...
  17. Kailex

    Is 30 too old?

    Do you still get an erection? If yes, then not too late.
  18. Kailex

    Hot Bartender Gone Cold!

    Well, that was a monumental disaster, but there is your answer. Sometimes you need an exchange like that to realize what should have already been obvious to you. Now you can waltz into that place just fine and know where you stand. Don't be afraid to meet any women or take any women there...
  19. Kailex

    Hot Bartender Gone Cold!

    Don't you dare text back. Leave that alone, she's just seeking attention. Seriously, if I were you, I wouldn't go alone at all to that place. She's seeking attention and possibly a customer with some added tips into the equation. Like you said, she was working and probably had some time to...
  20. Kailex

    Chick thinks well paid programmers are "boring"

    As someone who used to be in IT and now is in Accounting... maybe I'm the exception but have never been called boring. Then again, I never talk about my job until the relationship evolves organically to that point. All I ever say about my job in Accounting is that it is "CSI with numbers"...
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