rascal99v
Senior Don Juan
In order to get a date, and of course to get laid, you need to be the woman's priority.
That means that she is thinking about you and the date in a positive way. She is taking her time to get ready for the date, all the while excited to show up for it. You are the priority, because she is taking time from doing anything else to get ready and to spend her time with you.
Women who have interest and attraction will always make a man the priority if she feels he is worth it. She will show up for the date early or right on time at the location of your choosing. This is what the chick should be doing, giving her time to you, giving herself to you because you are the one thing above anything else. This is what will allow you to get laid because of her interest and attraction.
Chicks who are flaking, are not taking you seriously as a guy she wants to date. They aren't putting in any effort for the date. In fact, the only reason they are thinking about you is to contact you with some excuse to cancel. You are not being the priority, you are just being an afterthought. An afterthought of being some guy she has no interest in, or maybe a one date somewhere down the line that leads to nothing.
Chicks will already make up their minds about who they want to date or not to date. When you get a flake, you are most likely the guy she doesn't want to date. She is putting other things and men above you. You are not the priority, which mean you will never get laid. But, a lot of men will keep trying to get another date out of her even right after she makes the excuse to cancel. Seriously, if you are worth it in her eyes, she would be on the date with you, not doing somebody else or something else instead.
Excuses are very easy to make to break a date. Just one quick text, and then a "sorry" after that, is all the effort she is putting in for you. That really isn't much thought or effort is it? She had no plans of getting ready for you or taking the time to think about you.
I see all these terrible excuses like this in these threads. And you guys still want to try to get another date. It's just a wasted effort because no positive results are going to come out of it.
I was out with a friend of mine having lunch. She helped me get a couple of prospects for work and we were gong over the details. During that time, she got a text message from this guy she had date with later on that night.
He asked her if the date was still on for tonight. She told me that she needed to break the date with him, because she already made other plans that day with another guy who she likes.
I asked her why she didn't want to go out with the guy. She said he is a real nice guy, but doesn't feel anything or see anything happening between them. She was waiting to text him back with an excuse she was waiting to give.
I said: "Why don't you tell him that you're sick? That's an easy one."
Her: "I can't."
Rascal: "Why not?"
Her: "Because...I already used that one last time and yesterday I told him I was all better."
Both of us laughing
You see, this is exactly how a chick will think of you and treat you as a flake, as an afterthought. They don't put in any effort for a date or to even think about you. The only thoughts they have of you, is to cancel the date and that is it. They already know that nothing sexual is going to happen between you. That's why it's dumb to keep begging them for a date. You will get laughed at and have another person ahead of you because you are not the priority, just an afterthought.
Always be the priority because you are the man the woman really wants. Anything else doesn't cut it.
That means that she is thinking about you and the date in a positive way. She is taking her time to get ready for the date, all the while excited to show up for it. You are the priority, because she is taking time from doing anything else to get ready and to spend her time with you.
Women who have interest and attraction will always make a man the priority if she feels he is worth it. She will show up for the date early or right on time at the location of your choosing. This is what the chick should be doing, giving her time to you, giving herself to you because you are the one thing above anything else. This is what will allow you to get laid because of her interest and attraction.
Chicks who are flaking, are not taking you seriously as a guy she wants to date. They aren't putting in any effort for the date. In fact, the only reason they are thinking about you is to contact you with some excuse to cancel. You are not being the priority, you are just being an afterthought. An afterthought of being some guy she has no interest in, or maybe a one date somewhere down the line that leads to nothing.
Chicks will already make up their minds about who they want to date or not to date. When you get a flake, you are most likely the guy she doesn't want to date. She is putting other things and men above you. You are not the priority, which mean you will never get laid. But, a lot of men will keep trying to get another date out of her even right after she makes the excuse to cancel. Seriously, if you are worth it in her eyes, she would be on the date with you, not doing somebody else or something else instead.
Excuses are very easy to make to break a date. Just one quick text, and then a "sorry" after that, is all the effort she is putting in for you. That really isn't much thought or effort is it? She had no plans of getting ready for you or taking the time to think about you.
I see all these terrible excuses like this in these threads. And you guys still want to try to get another date. It's just a wasted effort because no positive results are going to come out of it.
I was out with a friend of mine having lunch. She helped me get a couple of prospects for work and we were gong over the details. During that time, she got a text message from this guy she had date with later on that night.
He asked her if the date was still on for tonight. She told me that she needed to break the date with him, because she already made other plans that day with another guy who she likes.
I asked her why she didn't want to go out with the guy. She said he is a real nice guy, but doesn't feel anything or see anything happening between them. She was waiting to text him back with an excuse she was waiting to give.
I said: "Why don't you tell him that you're sick? That's an easy one."
Her: "I can't."
Rascal: "Why not?"
Her: "Because...I already used that one last time and yesterday I told him I was all better."
Both of us laughing
You see, this is exactly how a chick will think of you and treat you as a flake, as an afterthought. They don't put in any effort for a date or to even think about you. The only thoughts they have of you, is to cancel the date and that is it. They already know that nothing sexual is going to happen between you. That's why it's dumb to keep begging them for a date. You will get laughed at and have another person ahead of you because you are not the priority, just an afterthought.
Always be the priority because you are the man the woman really wants. Anything else doesn't cut it.
