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Have to agree... I said "cell phones" but I meant "smart phones and apps"... because that's been the obvious downfall. It's not the same, to be honest, and I've noticed a difference. Zarky can come in here and denote whining, but just go to a bar and sit down. Unless you are in a...

Once you realize that women will never be introspective, your life will become MUCH simpler. They will never look within for anything even remotely close to "fault". It's always an external force acting upon them, whether it's "boys", "thyroid", "weather isn't good enough to go to the gym"...

You lost me here. Sorry, but if this is your mentality going into anything... you've already lost. And I mean age-wise moreso than the distance.

It's a barometer, the apex of "men" if you will. Many women would easily pass you up for a Channing Tatum, because he is a sex symbol due to looks, perceived status, and financial condition. I've been with women who have actually told me in the past, "I'm out of it today, I wouldn't even...

Why do men worry whether they "look like X or don't look butthurt"? Who cares? You live YOUR life and let her worry about what she thinks. This is by far one of the biggest problems I see with men nowadays, they are so worried about the perception women might have about them, that they...

Might be time to just hang out with this guy on NFL Sundays at a local sports bar instead of taking him with you everywhere. Also, don't let these situations get to you. If he is that good of a friend to you, what does it matter? My best friend flamed out for YEARS when we'd go out, but I...

Why do you want to know? It doesn't matter. You might need to go see a therapist. I think that is the more pressing issue. What happens if your ex decides to tell you one way or the other... the situation stays the same. But if you are having this attitude when it comes to a biological...

I've been through this or similar in the past. She paraded you in front of her friends/family. She felt you were boyfriend/girlfriend. You haven't even had sex. That last sentence is the most important. I'd dump her, and by dump her, I mean, just don't reach out to her. You need to...

She's your ex, why would you want to send her anything? Stop being bitter about all this and move on. You dodged a HUGE bullet but for some reason, you just want to hold onto all of it and to her.

Thoughts? #1: Are you a psychic? #2: Probably not, because you would have seen this coming. #3: Embark on a new life? Yes, because she is leaving and she MAY or MAY NOT come back. She might come back and decide to move elsewhere. #4: Do you know what she is doing after just "a year"...

Let her go. You both are on very different paths. You said what you needed to say, she is leaving to embark on a new life. The time for that relationship is over. You make it right by letting her go and moving on with your life. I get that you want to live on your own terms, and that's...

That is a VERY soft counter. Had she truly wanted to counter, she would have offered a much sooner, concrete date. I'd honestly "counter" with another weekday, just to see. I'm not going to plan another Friday on a woman who will most certainly flake... again. I wouldn't "NEXT" just yet...

I absolutely ABHOR when men say that they don't want to do NO CONTACT because they'll come across pissy or mad or as if they cared too much. No contact isn't about how it will affect her, it's how it will affect YOU. Seriously, why are you still having sex with her? You're obviously...

"Tired of the bar scene." "Looking to settle down." "Average"

So she drank too much, and out of consideration, flaked on you, but went out with friends to a carnival... um, okay. Plus she is 40+? Instead of "fvck off", just reply, "Who is this?" and THEN "fvck off".

I feel for the kids. Because right now they are probably seeing this "new, cool guy" who is more uncle than step-father. The time will come, soon enough, when he will barge in to discipline them (and at 13/14, IT WILL HAPPEN) and she shuns him and tells him that they are HER kids and not his...

I think cell phones have ruined the bar scene more than online dating, to be honest. I've yet to have a problem when I hit a bar, until I see a gaggle of women in a semi-circle all peering into their phone screens as if contemplating the meaning of life or looking for the next sale at Penney's.

I shaved my head for 16 years. I've had my hair longer for the last 5. I actually just found out I am balding in the back of my head for the past year. Who knows how long that thing has been there... Know what the difference has been in those 3 different stages? Nothing. Because I own it...

Was this post just to prove our point or to call us doomsayers while proving our point?

To any man who has problems with their woman withholding sex, just jump on Reddit and Dead Bedrooms... sit there for a few hours.