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Well, I committed the cardinal sin. The one rule at work that I thought I'd never break. Before I go any further, trust me, I ALREADY KNOW. But this is what happens when you go to company happy hours and after 3 hours of drinking and shots, two very young and sexy women from work approach you...

This was all I needed to read. So you: - Keep working where you are. Maybe things will smoothen out. Maybe she just walked into this with a chip on her shoulder and is trying to "John Wayne" her way to getting everything done. The time will come where she realizes her way isn't the right...

Then you take someone else who would love to go on vacation with you. It's not that difficult. I'm sure there are plenty of single, non-mothers out there who would love to take a trip.

If I'm single, the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas usually becomes "me" time when I stop actively seeking out. It seems to coincide with the time that the P-Stock tends to plummet, followed by the high season of New Year's to Valentine's Day. I'd rather spend it alone anyway, rather...

I know I am being terribly cynical, but the fact that you said this, just completely reminded me of Starwolf's thread. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=222278 I don't know, if it ain't broke, you might not have to try to fix it. Obviously you are doing SOMETHING right. If you...

ThunderMaverick, Seems like you are well on your way to a DeadBedroom. Just keep doing whatever you are doing if you want the frequency to decrease even more.

I don't understand why you need advice on "getting a side piece". You have all the ingredients you need to get it. Obviously, you got yourself a girlfriend right now. She only wants to see you once a week and she's 40 miles away. What's stopping you from putting up an online profile or...

This will never get old to me.

Set some massive boundaries, and go for it. She needs to know though that you aren't serious about her, whether you say it verbally or through actions. The downfall of this is that she might be even more drawn to you. Is her face THAT bad though? If it's not, then just shut the lights off...

It's a struggle, like tug of war, but the way to win the struggle is just let go of the rope if you don't like whose on the other side of it.

Just so you guys understand, there was no salvaging that relationship. Once he got her accustomed to some things, and the balance shifted towards her, the bell of death was already ringing. He responded correctly, specially knowing what was coming. It's a life experience, lesson learned.

Your bar raises because all of a sudden, you believe you can bag that "higher level" woman. Imagine you sitting there hitting nothing but 7's, but just one time, an 8 takes you into her bed. You no longer see the 8's as unattainable. Your confidence level rises. You get better, more confidence...

This. A million times this. There aren't any kids in the equation, be done with it. She's done with you. Release that wildebeest back into the wild.

Eh, not necessarily a good sign. I'd proceed with caution and not let it sway you either way.

You reacted in entirely the wrong way. You should have agreed and amplified, "You don't want to date? ME NEITHER. I am so relieved you feel that way."

I used to be a bartender. Trust me, you are faceless to them unless you are either extremely rude or an extremely good tipper. Seeing as you were just probably sulking at the bar and three other people got served before you, I'd go out on a limb here and say that the barmaid won't remember...

Where is the rest of the story? I would have just said that I only had two beers, she's paying for her own and then left. What did you do?

Is this the same girl that you posted about... your "dog" and how men and women can't be friends and she didn't know if she liked your or not? I don't think I've ever had that problem with my sister. In fact, I'll go out on a limb and say, I've NEVER had a problem like that with my sister...

I won't say ALL are damaged, but for a lot of them, they know the biological clock is ticking and that window is closing. Also, subconsciously, they know that their SMV is diminishing and they now find themselves competing with younger, hotter, sexier versions of themselves... YET at the same...

Bingo. My sentiment exactly. I know there is a possibility of a positive outcome. The odds are just forever NOT in my favor. I would love to say that I am going to get married to a wonderful woman who will be there with me, by my side for 30+ years and we'll die together. The chances of that...