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Here's my issue... you say you don't care about the outcome, and you want to learn... yet you are asking how to go through with this. Why not just live up to the "Don't care about the outcome" part and just try whatever, see what happens... live and learn. There's no better teacher than...

If you're not attracted to a 6.5, wouldn't you scale her a little lower then? Also, if you don't care about the outcome, why are you stressing this so much then? If she does come on her own without her friend, you leave her with your buddy or you just treat her as a friend. It almost sounds...

Oh how I'd wish this was a commercial for Kenmore appliances.

If you're giving a single mom money, you should be expected to be treated as nothing more than an ATM.

First thing I immediately did when the article was posted: Scrolled down to see who wrote it. Second thing I immediately did: Click on the red X.

The correct answer is "Something else". Next time she initiates, don't respond. And then next time she initiates, don't respond. Keep repeating this behavior until she no longer texts.

Yes, she had a few tattoos, dyed hair, belly ring, and other piercings, an armada of beauty products and the most ridiculous green eyes ever. Good riddance. I feel bad for the person who has to deal with her now.

Strongly DISAGREE.

Just dump her... good lord, why do men stay in relationships like these? Lack of options? Lack of self-esteem? Fear of never having sex again? I don't get it. It makes NO sense at all. What in the BLUE HELL are you thinking, man? It's a form of psychological torture, except you are...

The main problem (As Slickster mentioned) was that you had a 20 year pedestal. That should be the main takeaway from all of this. You saw her as a deity, when in reality, she was much worse than many women out there. Stay strong and out of contact with that one. Now you know why she got...

Solution: Make her your ex-girlfriend. Problem solved.

Every single time I've read one of these "I can deal with her BPD-ness" threads, it never ended well. Heck, the Official BPD thread should be enough of a cautionary tale. Even I went through this a few years ago and I had to undergo "dating detox" to get myself rid of that harpy. Worst...

I know this seems like the obvious question... but why not just focus on getting random sex then? You seem to have a problem most men on this forum would LOVE to have. Who cares about the second date if you can get the random sex. I just think your problem is you are trying so hard to...

Oh hurray, another man crying about how "guys in America can't get there". It never ceases to amaze how there is always some sort of external excuse as to why this is happening. Whether it's race (I'm not white). Hair (I'm balding). Money (I don't make 6 figures). Height (I am under...

Whether it is BPD or emotional immaturity or anything else, just delete her from your life and move on. Wasting your time analyzing all of this is only going to hinder your progress.

Huh? It's also that easy to NOT have a kid. And not out of spite, but out of smarts.

Making rules is the easy part, maintaining them and enforcing them is where most men in LTR's falter. Eventually, there are cracks, slight breakdowns for a lot of men in the enforcement of those rules. That's where men need to stand strong.

I can't say I was the quintessential nice guy. I was definitely on a better level than most when I first started coming here. But my mentality shifted since 2010 and maybe a bit before that. I realized, the more I cared about myself versus women and the less I tried to get women, the more...

You dodged a bullet, but yet, you still insist on playing russian roulette. You're holding the gun right now.

Been with your girlfriend for a year and you two are already living together?