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I know a whole other sub-forum of So Suave that would love to have your "problem".

As soon as I hear "single mom", her ceiling becomes "one and done" and her floor is set at "China". No way I'd ever take one seriously, no matter how hot she is. The hotness in short-term can only do so much over a longer period of time when you have to deal with all of the excess baggage.

She'll never realize it was "her" fault, and you know that. Which is unfortunate, but if all women actually had that realization, it'd actually be a message they'd pass down, but such is not the case.

Imagine that bartender chick is given MAYBE at the minimum 5 numbers a WEEK - she's making minimum wage but she's getting tipped well and she gets to choose who she can go out with because that's about 20 guys a month she can pick from. And that's JUST when she's working. They psyche of these...

@Reyaj - typical mindset is that you are just another source of income giving her attention. The nicer she is to you, the more likely you are to sweeten up the $ pot. She'll never be serious and if she is, she expects you to never be jealous. You'll come second to her job, by the way, and you'll...

Female bartenders are a rung up or so from single moms for me. If you search deep enough in my past posts on these forums, you'll see that I actively tell men to avoid these women. As a former bartender who used to work with a female bartender (and a rather attractive one too), I know exactly...

@Desdinova - You don't always need an explanation in order to drop someone. In fact, the dating world would be much better off if relationships took this approach versus staying for completely ridiculous reasons. It took me until my 30's to realize that I should just drop people who weren't...

Let me be honest for a second, Desdi - I found someone who I am currently sharing my life with. She has had none of the hallmarks of all of my previous relationships/plates. She MIGHT be in the elusive 5% of quality range. We've been together for over a year and a half now and she's checked off...

OLD took it's final jump into the dumpster once all those sites had mobile versions that you could pull up from your phone. Now it's 99% about how your best picture looks and the divide between that and the worse picture you post. Otherwise, forget it. I got out of the OLD game a few years ago...

There's only one winner in this story: Her. You just don't know it yet.

#1 - Don't be friends with women. #2 - Don't be friends with women while YOU'RE married. #3 - Don't be friend with women from work while YOU'RE married. See how it keeps getting worse and worse and worse? You want to chat it up? Chat it up with your buddies. Doing this with women will never...

Why are you messaging a co-worker through Facebook when you're married? That's just asking for trouble. Next time you think this might be a good idea, REGARDLESS of whatever you are sending, just DON'T.

Buddy, you need to go read the DJ Bible. And did we stop asking people to post their ages for the Mature Man forum? I'm cringing thinking about a "mature man" saying that he should tell her his "feelings" after two dates. What is this?

"Who is this?"

So you're basically admitting that you want to take on the female role in the relationship. Why in the BLUE HELL would you want to have that kind of mentality? What if she loses her job? What then? What if she never gets another one comparable to that? Congratulations, life happened, and you're...

Everytime this had been done to me in the past 5 years, I'd simply stop responding. Not worth my time. If a job candidate called me 6 hours ahead of an interview that something happened and they couldn't make it... and didn't try to set up a new date and time for an interview, they weren't worth...

Dear God, this all sounded like a whole bunch of useless drama. Not even 6 months worth of relationship? I would have been done with her as soon as she mentioned the ex going through a divorce and her going over to to see the dog. Sorry, not gonna be able to do it.

What did I just read? Can I have my 2 minutes back?

"Hey, how is your day?" I wouldn't answer either unless it's one of my parents, maybe.

And this is why I'd probably never do online dating again. I don't need to stab myself in the foot and eliminate myself based on silly categories that would be otherwise overlooked in regular interactions. I've had more success out with friends or through friendly interactions at Meetup or...