Why Guys In America Cant Get There

[Kailex]

Oh hurray, another man crying about how "guys in America can't get there".

It never ceases to amaze how there is always some sort of external excuse as to why this is happening.

Whether it's race (I'm not white).
Hair (I'm balding).
Money (I don't make 6 figures).
Height (I am under 6"0)

Etc, etc, etc...
Listen, according to the OP, I'm not playing on a level playing field, yet, I've never had the chance to sit down and complain about the state of the dating game, simply because I've held the homefield advantage for years, even though I have many of the disadvantages men constantly speak of.

Why is that? Is it because I sit here and psycho analyze every reason why women might not like me or is it because I go out there and I live my life and do things my way? Maybe because I don't sit here constantly debating and trying to micro-analyze the reason why they aren't pulling ahead in life?

Listen, there are people who make excuses and people who make things happen. I make things happen and I don't have time for reasons as to why "Guys in America can't get there".

If I meet someone who doesn't like that I am not White, balding, short, and not yet rich... I'll go meet someone else.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Oh hurray, another man crying about how "guys in America can't get there".

It never ceases to amaze how there is always some sort of external excuse as to why this is happening.

Whether it's race (I'm not white).
Hair (I'm balding).
Money (I don't make 6 figures).
Height (I am under 6"0)

Etc, etc, etc...
Listen, according to the OP, I'm not playing on a level playing field, yet, I've never had the chance to sit down and complain about the state of the dating game, simply because I've held the homefield advantage for years, even though I have many of the disadvantages men constantly speak of.

Why is that? Is it because I sit here and psycho analyze every reason why women might not like me or is it because I go out there and I live my life and do things my way? Maybe because I don't sit here constantly debating and trying to micro-analyze the reason why they aren't pulling ahead in life?

Listen, there are people who make excuses and people who make things happen. I make things happen and I don't have time for reasons as to why "Guys in America can't get there".

If I meet someone who doesn't like that I am not White, balding, short, and not yet rich... I'll go meet someone else.

You under estimate the power of groupthink. This will make girls only go for the guys that most of their friends like. They most likely snap out of this thinking once they leave their groupthink cliquish zone. You live up North where it's not as cliquish. I am pretty sure girls like muscular guys or hipsters up there lol. I go to a sec university, so girls like white males with dad bodies, in a fraternity, and etc. That dad body article tells you everything about what the girls chase down here. As a minority, you are pretty much excluded from most of the girls here. I figured out that later that it is just easier for me to pull outside my university. Anyways, it was hard for me to hang out with my fraternity brothers because they got pretty much any girl they wanted because they matched that status. I got **** and felt better hanging out with non greeks because it wasn't as bad. I will admit, there are two black guys I know in other fraternities doing well, but they are rich and come from the large private schools in state. However, they still are not as efficient as their white counterparts.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Boo hoo, cry cry, whine whine, woe is me. There, I added to the discussion.

Like Kaliex said there are people who make things happen, and there are people who don't. I'm a fire starter, are you?

Also, just because a race doesn't want to fūck you doesn't make them racist. I'm typically not attracted to Hindu chicks, this doesn't mean I believe there any less of a race.

Pop the balloons of this pity party and stop wallowing in your sorrows. Go out and improve yourself and only bìtch about things you can change.

 

[jurry]

Guys in the states rarely get laid.

Lol what dude? What kind of ridiculous claim is that to make?

Everyone is having sex, we are perhaps the most sex obsessed culture of all time.

The problem is the addiction to sex and this makes men weak, they are unable to focus on anything else and they believe it is the end all be all of their existence.

They are lost without their sexual identity and the number/quality of women they have had sex with. This is what has "pedestalized" women.

If the male gender can collectively mature and accept that yes, sex can be a wonderful thing, but it is also just one aspect of life, then women will fall off the pedestal.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Boo hoo, cry cry, whine whine, woe is me. There, I added to the discussion.

Like Kaliex said there are people who make things happen, and there are people who don't. I'm a fire starter, are you?

Also, just because a race doesn't want to fūck you doesn't make them racist. I'm typically not attracted to Hindu chicks, this doesn't mean I believe there any less of a race.

Pop the balloons of this pity party and stop wallowing in your sorrows. Go out and improve yourself and only bìtch about things you can change.

Did you not read my post. There's nothing you can really do, but either take it and hope women mature out of their groupthink stage or find a different location. There's nothing you can really do when you are already tall, in shape, good looking, but still getting clearly beat by the average joe white guy with girls. These girls just will not ever or currently are not attracted to you. My roommate is ugly af and he even pulls more than me. He does not have game either. Just uses tinder lol or lucks up at a bar. When you have to deal with **** like this constantly, it just makes you feel inferior.

 

[Eph]

You say race doesn't mean ****, but than proceed to tell me that not every girl will be in to my race. Yes you are right. There's nothing I can really do about my situation but try harder. However, don't go and tell me that race does not matter when it dictates my life everyday. Yes it does ******* matter lol. Blacks experience the most racism in this country due to the combination of deep rooted racism and thugdom. Asians and hispanics have it easier though. They can pull from the same women pool that Chad the Lacrosse captain/frat star pull from. Yet, most dress like ****, don't bother to workout or speak well. Essentially the totem pole is White male, hispanic male, asian male, and black male.

When I said "race doesn't matter", I meant you shouldn't worry about it. There's nothing you can do about your race. You guys have a really sh!tty thought process that goes something like "oh, she won't like me because I'm...". Again, not every girl will like your race, but that doesn't matter. There's a thousand, no, a billion other girls that will. Honestly, I don't know where you guys are, but at least here in the US, girls are pretty open-minded when it comes to race.

He doesn't get it. It's easier to say "you're a beta loser playing the victim card" than to accept truths about women. I've seen online dating profiles that say "no Indian men" or "no black men". I wonder how he would explain that to me.

You're a beta loser getting off on playing the victim card. You might as well be a fvcking woman. How would I explain those dating profiles to you? They aren't (or at least don't think they are) attracted to Indians and Blacks. How's that for "accepting truths"? Instead of moving up, you're so hung up on girls that don't want you. Why not focus on girls that do want you instead?

 

[englishman]

I've seen the goofiest looking white dudes pulling HB 8 Asian girls in SF. Meanwhile the Indian guys and Asian guys are doing Bootcamps and trolling the bars.

Asian girls are God's gift to AFC white males. In fact my own sister is marrying one of those AFC's.

Asian women where I live seem to really like goofy white guys. In fact, if your white, look like an accountant and have glasses... your a hit with the Asian women. They seem to like that look.

 

[Poon King]

As beta as calling guys "faggots" on an internet forum?





Interesting, yet another white dude talking about how racism doesn't exist.




Thanks, you just proved my point.

I'm not white. So the joke is on you. :crackup:

Now the real question is.. are you smart enough to feel stupid?

 

[Hollowpoints]

I'm not white. So the joke is on you. :crackup:

Now the real question is.. are you smart enough to feel stupid?

Why are you still attacking posters? Can't follow forum rules?

So the guy assumed you were white but not like you do in assuming everything but trying to pass it off as "facts" MGTOW king. You do assuming all the time and have more than proven you aren't smart enough to feel stupid. That attests more to the mental midgetry you possess. So before you point fingers get some professional help for yourself.

 

[_sideways_]

Lol what dude? What kind of ridiculous claim is that to make?

Everyone is having sex, we are perhaps the most sex obsessed culture of all time.

The problem is the addiction to sex and this makes men weak, they are unable to focus on anything else and they believe it is the end all be all of their existence.

They are lost without their sexual identity and the number/quality of women they have had sex with. This is what has "pedestalized" women.

If the male gender can collectively mature and accept that yes, sex can be a wonderful thing, but it is also just one aspect of life, then women will fall off the pedestal.

Not everyone is having sex. Just look at the forums.

I believe its a sex culture, but very few people are getting it weekly.

Other countries work less and fvck more cuz they dont have electronic entertainment or cash flow, so they screw. As a result its not such a coveted thing. Like omg u hooked up.

 

[jurry]

Interesting points, these sound like just claims you made up on the fly though do you have any evidence this is true? Most countries have electronics and cash unless you're in the congo or some shît.

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm not white. So the joke is on you. :crackup:

Now the real question is.. are you smart enough to feel stupid?

You're lying about not being white. Easy to lie behind a computer screen.

Also you're PlayHer Man.

Enough with the lies and bullsh*t.